Keeper
Master Don Juan
Okay, wtf. This girl I've been seeing for a while, and banging for a shorter while now, asked that I take a few pictures of myself naked and email 'em through.
WTF?
WTF?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She wants pictures of me naked.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DrBeard
Banned
Dont do it dude! She cud set u up!
My mate got with this girl + she took pics of him in shower + said he cud be a model but then the next week she said he is a wanker + she uploaded his pics to a gay porno site!!
My mate got with this girl + she took pics of him in shower + said he cud be a model but then the next week she said he is a wanker + she uploaded his pics to a gay porno site!!
Malachi
Don Juan
Or she could show all your mates and hers or whatever....lolDrBeard said:
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
Depends how much you trust her. Personally I'd say don't do it, but it's really up to you.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Blackmail. 
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Keeper
Master Don Juan
So she's starting an album? You guys know when you're a girls first... and I was hers. Seriously, girls don't masterbate to pics/videos like us, do they? Especially nothing like this. Lol
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
I don't think I made myself clear. Let me try again.Keeper said:
Blackmail!
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Ok ok, I get it, thederek. I just want a few more oppinons before I make some kind of decision.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
Dont do it dude. They are gonna photoshop your body on gay porn and send the picture to your parents.
El' Waynos
Don Juan
I agree with Flexion..
Another option is to get pictures of her first, that way you have some protection if she miss uses your pics..
also somthing cool to beat off over
Another option is to get pictures of her first, that way you have some protection if she miss uses your pics..
also somthing cool to beat off over
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
coolguy676767
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LOL^^El' Waynos said:
yeah man I wouldn't do it at all, but if you want to, then the lowest risk is that the other guy said about asking her to come over to take some pictures together. However if you take pictures of you 2 together and then e-mail them to her computer or something then she could possibly cut herself out of the picture and still blackmail you, but at least it is a lot less risky.
However liek I said my opinion is to not do it at all, or if you do make sure your face and/or distinguishable body features such as tatoos, birthmarks, or scars are all cropped out as well.
KontrollerX
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You could always give her neck down type of pictures where there'd never be any real proof that it was you.
Really though what the others have said about taking pictures together is the safest bet other than not giving her any at all.
Just make sure to keep a copy for yourself so you've got her naked too incase the blackmail crap starts.
Really though what the others have said about taking pictures together is the safest bet other than not giving her any at all.
Just make sure to keep a copy for yourself so you've got her naked too incase the blackmail crap starts.
The_Lifter
Don Juan
Never give her something without getting something of more worth in return.
Thus it would seem *she* has an appointment with the camera
Thus it would seem *she* has an appointment with the camera
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
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Don't do it..
Don't do it..
brucevangeorge
Banned
Yes, I agree.
If she gives first... then you give. Otherwise, can you spell "Youre screwed"?
If she gives first... then you give. Otherwise, can you spell "Youre screwed"?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.