Keeper
Master Don Juan
Okay, wtf. This girl I've been seeing for a while, and banging for a shorter while now, asked that I take a few pictures of myself naked and email 'em through.
WTF?
WTF?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She wants pictures of me naked.
- Thread starter Keeper
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DrBeard
Banned
Dont do it dude! She cud set u up!
My mate got with this girl + she took pics of him in shower + said he cud be a model but then the next week she said he is a wanker + she uploaded his pics to a gay porno site!!
My mate got with this girl + she took pics of him in shower + said he cud be a model but then the next week she said he is a wanker + she uploaded his pics to a gay porno site!!
Malachi
Don Juan
Or she could show all your mates and hers or whatever....lolDrBeard said:
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
Depends how much you trust her. Personally I'd say don't do it, but it's really up to you.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Blackmail. 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Keeper
Master Don Juan
So she's starting an album? You guys know when you're a girls first... and I was hers. Seriously, girls don't masterbate to pics/videos like us, do they? Especially nothing like this. Lol
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
I don't think I made myself clear. Let me try again.Keeper said:
Blackmail!
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Ok ok, I get it, thederek. I just want a few more oppinons before I make some kind of decision.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
Dont do it dude. They are gonna photoshop your body on gay porn and send the picture to your parents.
El' Waynos
Don Juan
I agree with Flexion..
Another option is to get pictures of her first, that way you have some protection if she miss uses your pics..
also somthing cool to beat off over
Another option is to get pictures of her first, that way you have some protection if she miss uses your pics..
also somthing cool to beat off over
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
coolguy676767
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LOL^^El' Waynos said:
yeah man I wouldn't do it at all, but if you want to, then the lowest risk is that the other guy said about asking her to come over to take some pictures together. However if you take pictures of you 2 together and then e-mail them to her computer or something then she could possibly cut herself out of the picture and still blackmail you, but at least it is a lot less risky.
However liek I said my opinion is to not do it at all, or if you do make sure your face and/or distinguishable body features such as tatoos, birthmarks, or scars are all cropped out as well.
KontrollerX
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You could always give her neck down type of pictures where there'd never be any real proof that it was you.
Really though what the others have said about taking pictures together is the safest bet other than not giving her any at all.
Just make sure to keep a copy for yourself so you've got her naked too incase the blackmail crap starts.
Really though what the others have said about taking pictures together is the safest bet other than not giving her any at all.
Just make sure to keep a copy for yourself so you've got her naked too incase the blackmail crap starts.
The_Lifter
Don Juan
Never give her something without getting something of more worth in return.
Thus it would seem *she* has an appointment with the camera
Thus it would seem *she* has an appointment with the camera
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
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Don't do it..
Don't do it..
brucevangeorge
Banned
Yes, I agree.
If she gives first... then you give. Otherwise, can you spell "Youre screwed"?
If she gives first... then you give. Otherwise, can you spell "Youre screwed"?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.