Keeper
Master Don Juan
Okay, wtf. This girl I've been seeing for a while, and banging for a shorter while now, asked that I take a few pictures of myself naked and email 'em through.
WTF?
WTF?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She wants pictures of me naked.
- Thread starter Keeper
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DrBeard
Banned
Dont do it dude! She cud set u up!
My mate got with this girl + she took pics of him in shower + said he cud be a model but then the next week she said he is a wanker + she uploaded his pics to a gay porno site!!
My mate got with this girl + she took pics of him in shower + said he cud be a model but then the next week she said he is a wanker + she uploaded his pics to a gay porno site!!
Malachi
Don Juan
Or she could show all your mates and hers or whatever....lolDrBeard said:
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
Depends how much you trust her. Personally I'd say don't do it, but it's really up to you.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Blackmail. 
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Keeper
Master Don Juan
So she's starting an album? You guys know when you're a girls first... and I was hers. Seriously, girls don't masterbate to pics/videos like us, do they? Especially nothing like this. Lol
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
I don't think I made myself clear. Let me try again.Keeper said:
Blackmail!
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Ok ok, I get it, thederek. I just want a few more oppinons before I make some kind of decision.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
Dont do it dude. They are gonna photoshop your body on gay porn and send the picture to your parents.
El' Waynos
Don Juan
I agree with Flexion..
Another option is to get pictures of her first, that way you have some protection if she miss uses your pics..
also somthing cool to beat off over
Another option is to get pictures of her first, that way you have some protection if she miss uses your pics..
also somthing cool to beat off over
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
coolguy676767
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LOL^^El' Waynos said:
yeah man I wouldn't do it at all, but if you want to, then the lowest risk is that the other guy said about asking her to come over to take some pictures together. However if you take pictures of you 2 together and then e-mail them to her computer or something then she could possibly cut herself out of the picture and still blackmail you, but at least it is a lot less risky.
However liek I said my opinion is to not do it at all, or if you do make sure your face and/or distinguishable body features such as tatoos, birthmarks, or scars are all cropped out as well.
KontrollerX
Master Don Juan
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You could always give her neck down type of pictures where there'd never be any real proof that it was you.
Really though what the others have said about taking pictures together is the safest bet other than not giving her any at all.
Just make sure to keep a copy for yourself so you've got her naked too incase the blackmail crap starts.
Really though what the others have said about taking pictures together is the safest bet other than not giving her any at all.
Just make sure to keep a copy for yourself so you've got her naked too incase the blackmail crap starts.
The_Lifter
Don Juan
Never give her something without getting something of more worth in return.
Thus it would seem *she* has an appointment with the camera
Thus it would seem *she* has an appointment with the camera
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
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Don't do it..
Don't do it..
brucevangeorge
Banned
Yes, I agree.
If she gives first... then you give. Otherwise, can you spell "Youre screwed"?
If she gives first... then you give. Otherwise, can you spell "Youre screwed"?
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