"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SHE used ME for sex??? WTF

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Wyldfire, get over here in those c@m fukk me boots before I light the fuse on your tampon, woman!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Immaculate
Wyldfire, get over here in those c@m fukk me boots before I light the fuse on your tampon, woman!
pathetic
 

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Immaculate, 1st your saying this girl hurt you because you liked her and she didn't reciprocate now your saying you wanna get her back just so you can start banging her again knowing damn well she doesn't want a LTR with you..your a contradiction, you have no idea what you want and your acting like a ***** cause you can't stand your ground and move on. You got laid by some girl now you think just cause (in your opinion) your good in bed she owes you something.

It seems more like desperation and not having any self respect..your f-cken yourself up dude..if 1 girl got your head spinning like this imagine other girls with better game using you...you don't stand a chance, do yourself a favor, don't even look for other girls, you obviously still need to work on YOURSELF before your ready to be with another girl again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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like i said before

I lost her # and email addy already...

If she contacs me fine... if not who cares?
 

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Now she's the one all up in my match profile viewing me 3 times LOL..thinking about my a$$... told ya I'm going to turn the tables on this ho.
 

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Immaculate, your problem was this chick just wanted sex at first RIGHT FROM THE WORD GO. She wanted you so much that she basically paced you and agreed with you - knowing she could fVck you a few times and then sevour ties. She was probibly on a power trip when she realised you were wanting a LTR and decided to have your c0ck there and then on the spot.

Anyway if you'd sensed the vibe coming off her at first she'd have let you know she was all about sex.


That's been your problem all along with this chick - believe me I've been there myself when I was starting out. You've just got to grab yourself by the scrotum and tell yourself to snap out of it. It's the process not the girl. Beauty is common. There are many more fish in the sea.

My advice if htis happens in future or if you get a second chance with this one:

Get some **** buddies.

Look out for relationship material but DON'T get emotionally involved until you're in an official relationship.

and

If you get **** buddies things can develop from that.
 

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If this girl contacts me again, she's getting her a$$ dumped. Plain and simple. Going to teach her a lesson. I really want nothing to do with her anymore... I just think it's funny as hell I woke up today to see her stalking my profile on match.
 

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I think I speak for everyone on this board when I say you're full of **** immaculate. You can exit the forum at any time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It's odd that this is in the mature men section.

You had a One Night Stand. You shouldn't expect any more from a bar chick. Only 20% of marriages come from bars and clubs.


DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT. If you specialize in LTRs, avoid the bars and clubs unless you expressly want an ONS.

Aren't you the guy that got a DWI and then had sex with his girlfriend without a condom the other day?

You're out of control, dude. If you can't decide rationally when adn how how sex is a part of your life, you've missed the whole idea of being a DJ.
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
It's odd that this is in the mature men section.

You had a One Night Stand. You shouldn't expect any more from a bar chick. Only 20% of marriages come from bars and clubs.


DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT. If you specialize in LTRs, avoid the bars and clubs unless you expressly want an ONS.

Aren't you the guy that got a DWI and then had sex with his girlfriend without a condom the other day?

You're out of control, dude. If you can't decide rationally when adn how how sex is a part of your life, you've missed the whole idea of being a DJ.
We met up at a bar that I specified. She's not a bar chick... she's a freakin programmer who supposedly makes over 100K a year...living in a 500K+ home all alone.
 

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Female programmers are like HB9s or 10s even if they're only 5s in real life. This is because they work in mostly male environments, because most women don't have minds configured to like logic and programming.


Take a look at The Art of Seduction. What you've just experienced is essentially the female Dandy. A woman who doesn't possess the whiny and clinginess of normal women, so she's immune to the standard male fare. It's similar to the Laura Croft effect.

Anyway, that book talks about each seduction style and its countermove.
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
Female programmers are like HB9s or 10s even if they're only 5s in real life. This is because they work in mostly male environments, because most women don't have minds configured to like logic and programming.


Take a look at The Art of Seduction. What you've just experienced is essentially the female Dandy. A woman who doesn't possess the whiny and clinginess of normal women, so she's immune to the standard male fare. It's similar to the Laura Croft effect.

Anyway, that book talks about each seduction style and its countermove.

Thanks, that was a great post.

Not only is this girl a challenge emotionally, she is an incredibly major challenge intelectually. She has all sorts of degrees, very well read and educated. Travelled the world. Speaks several languages. I would go so far as to say she is out of my league, but I'm proud of myself for at least possibly keeping her interest level in tact. Even though the match profile viewing is probably just a case of blues being single on new years eve coming up. Or horniness.
 

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I don't know whether to make fun of you or feel sorry for you...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Give me your best shot. Are you on this girls level Wyld? Doubt it.
 

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Wyld check your PM. I was a gentleman and didn't post it.
 

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You're whipped. You're all over the place.


So how big is her house? How many cars does she have? How many rooms? Have you met any of her friends or family members yet? Does she keep you on a short leash? Do you know anyone she knows?

500k house. By herself.


Let me plants some seeds into your head. Tee hee hee.

She doesn't live alone. Her husband was just on vacation.

When she said she wanted to stop seeing you, her husband flew in and was comming home that night. Come on. A young pretty woman living in a huge expensive house....

Think about it, Jr.
 

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Originally posted by Immaculate
Wyld check your PM. I was a gentleman and didn't post it.
Go ahead and post your PM...it doesn't reflect at all on me...it only shows that you foolishly value this woman MORE than you do yourself. That is dumb.
 

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Just tell her you want a fvck buddy and nothing more, then do it, and if you are as good as you think you are she'll be begging you for more eventually.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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