Immaculate
Master Don Juan
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Wyldfire, get over here in those c@m fukk me boots before I light the fuse on your tampon, woman!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
patheticOriginally posted by Immaculate
Wyldfire, get over here in those c@m fukk me boots before I light the fuse on your tampon, woman!
Yes you most certainly are.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
pathetic
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
We met up at a bar that I specified. She's not a bar chick... she's a freakin programmer who supposedly makes over 100K a year...living in a 500K+ home all alone.Originally posted by MackJr
It's odd that this is in the mature men section.
You had a One Night Stand. You shouldn't expect any more from a bar chick. Only 20% of marriages come from bars and clubs.
DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT. If you specialize in LTRs, avoid the bars and clubs unless you expressly want an ONS.
Aren't you the guy that got a DWI and then had sex with his girlfriend without a condom the other day?
You're out of control, dude. If you can't decide rationally when adn how how sex is a part of your life, you've missed the whole idea of being a DJ.
Originally posted by MackJr
Female programmers are like HB9s or 10s even if they're only 5s in real life. This is because they work in mostly male environments, because most women don't have minds configured to like logic and programming.
Take a look at The Art of Seduction. What you've just experienced is essentially the female Dandy. A woman who doesn't possess the whiny and clinginess of normal women, so she's immune to the standard male fare. It's similar to the Laura Croft effect.
Anyway, that book talks about each seduction style and its countermove.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Go ahead and post your PM...it doesn't reflect at all on me...it only shows that you foolishly value this woman MORE than you do yourself. That is dumb.Originally posted by Immaculate
Wyld check your PM. I was a gentleman and didn't post it.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.