Immaculate
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Wyldfire, get over here in those c@m fukk me boots before I light the fuse on your tampon, woman!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SHE used ME for sex??? WTF
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
RaWBLooD
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patheticOriginally posted by Immaculate
Wyldfire, get over here in those c@m fukk me boots before I light the fuse on your tampon, woman!
Immaculate
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Yes you most certainly are.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
pathetic
Drum&Bass
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Immaculate, 1st your saying this girl hurt you because you liked her and she didn't reciprocate now your saying you wanna get her back just so you can start banging her again knowing damn well she doesn't want a LTR with you..your a contradiction, you have no idea what you want and your acting like a ***** cause you can't stand your ground and move on. You got laid by some girl now you think just cause (in your opinion) your good in bed she owes you something.
It seems more like desperation and not having any self respect..your f-cken yourself up dude..if 1 girl got your head spinning like this imagine other girls with better game using you...you don't stand a chance, do yourself a favor, don't even look for other girls, you obviously still need to work on YOURSELF before your ready to be with another girl again.
It seems more like desperation and not having any self respect..your f-cken yourself up dude..if 1 girl got your head spinning like this imagine other girls with better game using you...you don't stand a chance, do yourself a favor, don't even look for other girls, you obviously still need to work on YOURSELF before your ready to be with another girl again.
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LOL
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Immaculate
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like i said before
I lost her # and email addy already...
If she contacs me fine... if not who cares?
I lost her # and email addy already...
If she contacs me fine... if not who cares?
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Now she's the one all up in my match profile viewing me 3 times LOL..thinking about my a$$... told ya I'm going to turn the tables on this ho.
Immaculate, your problem was this chick just wanted sex at first RIGHT FROM THE WORD GO. She wanted you so much that she basically paced you and agreed with you - knowing she could fVck you a few times and then sevour ties. She was probibly on a power trip when she realised you were wanting a LTR and decided to have your c0ck there and then on the spot.
Anyway if you'd sensed the vibe coming off her at first she'd have let you know she was all about sex.
That's been your problem all along with this chick - believe me I've been there myself when I was starting out. You've just got to grab yourself by the scrotum and tell yourself to snap out of it. It's the process not the girl. Beauty is common. There are many more fish in the sea.
My advice if htis happens in future or if you get a second chance with this one:
Get some **** buddies.
Look out for relationship material but DON'T get emotionally involved until you're in an official relationship.
and
If you get **** buddies things can develop from that.
Anyway if you'd sensed the vibe coming off her at first she'd have let you know she was all about sex.
That's been your problem all along with this chick - believe me I've been there myself when I was starting out. You've just got to grab yourself by the scrotum and tell yourself to snap out of it. It's the process not the girl. Beauty is common. There are many more fish in the sea.
My advice if htis happens in future or if you get a second chance with this one:
Get some **** buddies.
Look out for relationship material but DON'T get emotionally involved until you're in an official relationship.
and
If you get **** buddies things can develop from that.
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If this girl contacts me again, she's getting her a$$ dumped. Plain and simple. Going to teach her a lesson. I really want nothing to do with her anymore... I just think it's funny as hell I woke up today to see her stalking my profile on match.
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I think I speak for everyone on this board when I say you're full of **** immaculate. You can exit the forum at any time.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's odd that this is in the mature men section.
You had a One Night Stand. You shouldn't expect any more from a bar chick. Only 20% of marriages come from bars and clubs.
DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT. If you specialize in LTRs, avoid the bars and clubs unless you expressly want an ONS.
Aren't you the guy that got a DWI and then had sex with his girlfriend without a condom the other day?
You're out of control, dude. If you can't decide rationally when adn how how sex is a part of your life, you've missed the whole idea of being a DJ.
You had a One Night Stand. You shouldn't expect any more from a bar chick. Only 20% of marriages come from bars and clubs.
DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT. If you specialize in LTRs, avoid the bars and clubs unless you expressly want an ONS.
Aren't you the guy that got a DWI and then had sex with his girlfriend without a condom the other day?
You're out of control, dude. If you can't decide rationally when adn how how sex is a part of your life, you've missed the whole idea of being a DJ.
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We met up at a bar that I specified. She's not a bar chick... she's a freakin programmer who supposedly makes over 100K a year...living in a 500K+ home all alone.Originally posted by MackJr
It's odd that this is in the mature men section.
You had a One Night Stand. You shouldn't expect any more from a bar chick. Only 20% of marriages come from bars and clubs.
DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT. If you specialize in LTRs, avoid the bars and clubs unless you expressly want an ONS.
Aren't you the guy that got a DWI and then had sex with his girlfriend without a condom the other day?
You're out of control, dude. If you can't decide rationally when adn how how sex is a part of your life, you've missed the whole idea of being a DJ.
Female programmers are like HB9s or 10s even if they're only 5s in real life. This is because they work in mostly male environments, because most women don't have minds configured to like logic and programming.
Take a look at The Art of Seduction. What you've just experienced is essentially the female Dandy. A woman who doesn't possess the whiny and clinginess of normal women, so she's immune to the standard male fare. It's similar to the Laura Croft effect.
Anyway, that book talks about each seduction style and its countermove.
Take a look at The Art of Seduction. What you've just experienced is essentially the female Dandy. A woman who doesn't possess the whiny and clinginess of normal women, so she's immune to the standard male fare. It's similar to the Laura Croft effect.
Anyway, that book talks about each seduction style and its countermove.
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Originally posted by MackJr
Female programmers are like HB9s or 10s even if they're only 5s in real life. This is because they work in mostly male environments, because most women don't have minds configured to like logic and programming.
Take a look at The Art of Seduction. What you've just experienced is essentially the female Dandy. A woman who doesn't possess the whiny and clinginess of normal women, so she's immune to the standard male fare. It's similar to the Laura Croft effect.
Anyway, that book talks about each seduction style and its countermove.
Thanks, that was a great post.
Not only is this girl a challenge emotionally, she is an incredibly major challenge intelectually. She has all sorts of degrees, very well read and educated. Travelled the world. Speaks several languages. I would go so far as to say she is out of my league, but I'm proud of myself for at least possibly keeping her interest level in tact. Even though the match profile viewing is probably just a case of blues being single on new years eve coming up. Or horniness.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Give me your best shot. Are you on this girls level Wyld? Doubt it.
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Wyld check your PM. I was a gentleman and didn't post it.
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You're whipped. You're all over the place.
So how big is her house? How many cars does she have? How many rooms? Have you met any of her friends or family members yet? Does she keep you on a short leash? Do you know anyone she knows?
500k house. By herself.
Let me plants some seeds into your head. Tee hee hee.
She doesn't live alone. Her husband was just on vacation.
When she said she wanted to stop seeing you, her husband flew in and was comming home that night. Come on. A young pretty woman living in a huge expensive house....
Think about it, Jr.
So how big is her house? How many cars does she have? How many rooms? Have you met any of her friends or family members yet? Does she keep you on a short leash? Do you know anyone she knows?
500k house. By herself.
Let me plants some seeds into your head. Tee hee hee.
She doesn't live alone. Her husband was just on vacation.
When she said she wanted to stop seeing you, her husband flew in and was comming home that night. Come on. A young pretty woman living in a huge expensive house....
Think about it, Jr.
Go ahead and post your PM...it doesn't reflect at all on me...it only shows that you foolishly value this woman MORE than you do yourself. That is dumb.Originally posted by Immaculate
Wyld check your PM. I was a gentleman and didn't post it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.