She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She got kicked out after that.I hope she got her gym membership revoked for that.
Very good. She probably got another gym membership after that, so it wasn't a major incovenience. Most gyms are interchangeable.She got kicked out after that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The funniest thing is the people posting selfies should be putting in work a lot more because they have nothing to show off most times.This is why I have a garage full of equipment, hate the gym scene. It’s absurd everyone on their phones posting gym selfies.
The absurdity astounds.
nevermind the peeps doing curls in the power rack or Squatting an Oly bar with (2) 5 lbs plates in the power rack…seriously wtff
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
#GAINZThe funniest thing is the people posting selfies should be putting in work a lot more because they have nothing to show off most times.
Almost like the people who just started and gained some muscle are so excited and think so highly about what they have done but then in two years realize they still haven't accomplished anything
She was clearly try to bait men for sexualized attention.Notice how slowly she removes her shirt. It was almost over her head, and then she pulls it back down to take longer. She was purposely dragging it out for attention.
While not the most appropriate thing to do in public, it should only take about two seconds.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Nah she is Mexican bro. However, I do want to say that props to black people for calling this out man. Black people, perhaps better than any other group out there, call out the hypocrisy of women outright. Lots of black youtubers came and called her out for her BS.
Her last name seemed more Hispanic/Latin American than Italian to me. Every other person I've known with that last name was Hispanic/Latino.Nah she is Mexican bro. However, I do want to say that props to black people for calling this out man. Black people, perhaps better than any other group out there, call out the hypocrisy of women outright. Lots of black youtubers came and called her out for her BS.
This is her TikTok, surprisingly she is Mexican which shocks me since Mexican women are usually the most chill and down to earth of all the Latinas.Her last name seemed more Hispanic/Latin American than Italian to me. Every other person I've known with that last name was Hispanic/Latino.
That reminds me of a Bill Burr line.When she's 40-45 she'll be dreaming of guys giving her that kind of attention again....
I thought she was using some reverse attraction technic to hit on the dude.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.