mustfirstregister
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Why do chicks say to me "they don't like me" but they end up banging me?
I don't understand
I don't understand
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Agreed. If a chicks horny enough she will be willing to bang a guy as long as he isnt obese or deformed.floydb25 said:Easy... It means you're doable, but they're not into you. Not everyone has high standards if they just want sex. Or, if you're around at the time, and they want sex.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Better than the reverse.mustfirstregister said:Why do chicks say to me "they don't like me" but they end up banging me?
Are you asking them if they like you?mustfirstregister said:thanks for the replies. but i want them to like me. why they dont say it?
They don't have to like you to bang you. They just have to be attracted to you.mustfirstregister said:Why do chicks say to me "they don't like me" but they end up banging me?
I don't understand![]()
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I like your posts gaspipe. I don't want to hijack this thread (ie start a sub-thread), but are you pretty sure that a chick, if horny enough, will lower her standards to F?gaspipe said:Agreed. If a chicks horny enough she will be willing to bang a guy as long as he isnt obese or deformed.
Mike32ct said:I like your posts gaspipe. I don't want to hijack this thread (ie start a sub-thread), but are you pretty sure that a chick, if horny enough, will lower her standards to F?
We know for sure that men lower their standards for s*x when they want it badly enough. I used to think women had STRICT looks standards for s*x that are never compromised. But I willing to re-evaluate that position and possibly join your camp on this one. You've seen them hook up with less attractive guys when they were horny enough?
Mike32ct said:They don't have to like you to bang you. They just have to be attracted to you.
Here are the possibilities:
1. She's doesn't like you and isn't attracted to you. Thus, she doesn't want anything to do with you. No friendship, no hookup, no dating, NOTHING.
2. She likes you but isn't attracted to you. This is called friendzone. She enjoys your company, but you don't make her gina tingle.
3. She doesn't like you, but is attracted to you. This is the usually the bad boy thing. She lusts for you because she finds you PHYSICALLY attractive, but doesn't like how you treat her. She'll bang you and TRY not to get too attached.
4. She likes you and is attracted to you. A relationship (with s*x obviously) is possible. She enjoys your company, and she doesn't mind sleeping with you.
gaspipe said:Yes Ive seen it for myself. One new years eve several years ago some friends and I rented out a hotel room. Among our group was a smoking hot 8.5 girl.
Well to make the long story short (no pun intended) a guy within our group who was a friend of my cousin ended up shagging this girl that night and I heard them going at it since I was sleeping in the same room on the other bed.
The guy wasnt ugly. You might say even cute for a girl but he was kind of short maybe 5-5 but definitely not in this girl's league.
Ive seen many hot girls with average guys and dont necessarily suscribe to the notion that all women even the hot ones will stick to a standard to get laid.
Like I said. If a women is horny enough I think she will bang a guy as long as he is acceptable though not necessarily good looking or physically attractive.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hahaha thisL B said:I don't see a problem here.