mustfirstregister
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Why do chicks say to me "they don't like me" but they end up banging me?
I don't understand
I don't understand
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Agreed. If a chicks horny enough she will be willing to bang a guy as long as he isnt obese or deformed.floydb25 said:Easy... It means you're doable, but they're not into you. Not everyone has high standards if they just want sex. Or, if you're around at the time, and they want sex.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Better than the reverse.mustfirstregister said:Why do chicks say to me "they don't like me" but they end up banging me?
Are you asking them if they like you?mustfirstregister said:thanks for the replies. but i want them to like me. why they dont say it?
They don't have to like you to bang you. They just have to be attracted to you.mustfirstregister said:Why do chicks say to me "they don't like me" but they end up banging me?
I don't understand![]()
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I like your posts gaspipe. I don't want to hijack this thread (ie start a sub-thread), but are you pretty sure that a chick, if horny enough, will lower her standards to F?gaspipe said:Agreed. If a chicks horny enough she will be willing to bang a guy as long as he isnt obese or deformed.
Mike32ct said:I like your posts gaspipe. I don't want to hijack this thread (ie start a sub-thread), but are you pretty sure that a chick, if horny enough, will lower her standards to F?
We know for sure that men lower their standards for s*x when they want it badly enough. I used to think women had STRICT looks standards for s*x that are never compromised. But I willing to re-evaluate that position and possibly join your camp on this one. You've seen them hook up with less attractive guys when they were horny enough?
Mike32ct said:They don't have to like you to bang you. They just have to be attracted to you.
Here are the possibilities:
1. She's doesn't like you and isn't attracted to you. Thus, she doesn't want anything to do with you. No friendship, no hookup, no dating, NOTHING.
2. She likes you but isn't attracted to you. This is called friendzone. She enjoys your company, but you don't make her gina tingle.
3. She doesn't like you, but is attracted to you. This is the usually the bad boy thing. She lusts for you because she finds you PHYSICALLY attractive, but doesn't like how you treat her. She'll bang you and TRY not to get too attached.
4. She likes you and is attracted to you. A relationship (with s*x obviously) is possible. She enjoys your company, and she doesn't mind sleeping with you.
gaspipe said:Yes Ive seen it for myself. One new years eve several years ago some friends and I rented out a hotel room. Among our group was a smoking hot 8.5 girl.
Well to make the long story short (no pun intended) a guy within our group who was a friend of my cousin ended up shagging this girl that night and I heard them going at it since I was sleeping in the same room on the other bed.
The guy wasnt ugly. You might say even cute for a girl but he was kind of short maybe 5-5 but definitely not in this girl's league.
Ive seen many hot girls with average guys and dont necessarily suscribe to the notion that all women even the hot ones will stick to a standard to get laid.
Like I said. If a women is horny enough I think she will bang a guy as long as he is acceptable though not necessarily good looking or physically attractive.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hahaha thisL B said:I don't see a problem here.