"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why do chicks say to me "they don't like me" but they end up banging me?
I don't understand:confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't see a problem here.
 
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lol wtf? Well, I SNL a chick a couple months back on a date after she said I was cute but wasn't her type. Haha whatev, I got balls deep and that's what matters.
 
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Easy... It means you're doable, but they're not into you. Not everyone has high standards if they just want sex. Or, if you're around at the time, and they want sex.
 
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floydb25 said:
Easy... It means you're doable, but they're not into you. Not everyone has high standards if they just want sex. Or, if you're around at the time, and they want sex.
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Agreed. If a chicks horny enough she will be willing to bang a guy as long as he isnt obese or deformed.

It could also be part of a girls anti-slut defense. She will say stupid things as to give them plausible deniability like "I didnt even like him, I was drunk, etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mustfirstregister said:
Why do chicks say to me "they don't like me" but they end up banging me?
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Better than the reverse.
 
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mustfirstregister said:
thanks for the replies. but i want them to like me. why they dont say it?
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Are you asking them if they like you?
Shouldn't do that, it sounds needy.
If they're banging you, I'd say they like you.
 
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mustfirstregister said:
Why do chicks say to me "they don't like me" but they end up banging me?
I don't understand:confused:
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They don't have to like you to bang you. They just have to be attracted to you.

Here are the possibilities:

1. She's doesn't like you and isn't attracted to you. Thus, she doesn't want anything to do with you. No friendship, no hookup, no dating, NOTHING.

2. She likes you but isn't attracted to you. This is called friendzone. She enjoys your company, but you don't make her gina tingle.

3. She doesn't like you, but is attracted to you. This is the usually the bad boy thing. She lusts for you because she finds you PHYSICALLY attractive, but doesn't like how you treat her. She'll bang you and TRY not to get too attached.

4. She likes you and is attracted to you. A relationship (with s*x obviously) is possible. She enjoys your company, and she doesn't mind sleeping with you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gaspipe said:
Agreed. If a chicks horny enough she will be willing to bang a guy as long as he isnt obese or deformed.
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I like your posts gaspipe. I don't want to hijack this thread (ie start a sub-thread), but are you pretty sure that a chick, if horny enough, will lower her standards to F?

We know for sure that men lower their standards for s*x when they want it badly enough. I used to think women had STRICT looks standards for s*x that are never compromised. But I willing to re-evaluate that position and possibly join your camp on this one. You've seen them hook up with less attractive guys when they were horny enough?
 
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I like your posts gaspipe. I don't want to hijack this thread (ie start a sub-thread), but are you pretty sure that a chick, if horny enough, will lower her standards to F?

We know for sure that men lower their standards for s*x when they want it badly enough. I used to think women had STRICT looks standards for s*x that are never compromised. But I willing to re-evaluate that position and possibly join your camp on this one. You've seen them hook up with less attractive guys when they were horny enough?
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Yes Ive seen it for myself. One new years eve several years ago some friends and I rented out a hotel room. Among our group was a smoking hot 8.5 girl.

Well to make the long story short (no pun intended) a guy within our group who was a friend of my cousin ended up shagging this girl that night and I heard them going at it since I was sleeping in the same room on the other bed.

The guy wasnt ugly. You might say even cute for a girl but he was kind of short maybe 5-5 but definitely not in this girl's league.

Ive seen many hot girls with average guys and dont necessarily suscribe to the notion that all women even the hot ones will stick to a standard to get laid.

Like I said. If a women is horny enough I think she will bang a guy as long as he is acceptable though not necessarily good looking or physically attractive.
 
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Mike32ct said:
They don't have to like you to bang you. They just have to be attracted to you.

Here are the possibilities:

1. She's doesn't like you and isn't attracted to you. Thus, she doesn't want anything to do with you. No friendship, no hookup, no dating, NOTHING.

2. She likes you but isn't attracted to you. This is called friendzone. She enjoys your company, but you don't make her gina tingle.

3. She doesn't like you, but is attracted to you. This is the usually the bad boy thing. She lusts for you because she finds you PHYSICALLY attractive, but doesn't like how you treat her. She'll bang you and TRY not to get too attached.

4. She likes you and is attracted to you. A relationship (with s*x obviously) is possible. She enjoys your company, and she doesn't mind sleeping with you.
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I think these are excellent points.
 
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Thanks Gaspipe. I'm convinced now :).

gaspipe said:
Yes Ive seen it for myself. One new years eve several years ago some friends and I rented out a hotel room. Among our group was a smoking hot 8.5 girl.

Well to make the long story short (no pun intended) a guy within our group who was a friend of my cousin ended up shagging this girl that night and I heard them going at it since I was sleeping in the same room on the other bed.

The guy wasnt ugly. You might say even cute for a girl but he was kind of short maybe 5-5 but definitely not in this girl's league.

Ive seen many hot girls with average guys and dont necessarily suscribe to the notion that all women even the hot ones will stick to a standard to get laid.

Like I said. If a women is horny enough I think she will bang a guy as long as he is acceptable though not necessarily good looking or physically attractive.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mike: you're missing 2 1/2

She likes you, is attracted to you, but doesn't find you attractIVE. No sparks or challenge, but still wants sex. Nice guys; friends with benefits. Could also be a one time thing.
 
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