RickTheToad
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I don't need any to support me or buy me things. I can take care of myself. I do not like the fox body anyway. The one after, mid 90's is the sh!t; IMHO.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She keeps on buying me things...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Not all bells and whistles. Still learning about this one... No real negatives or any red flags... Yet... Again, still investigating.
RickTheToad
Moderator
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
backseatjuan
Banned
Fox is twice lighter, I too like terminator. But also fox.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
I would just hold the position with her. Keep doing what you’re doing, enjoying time spent and such.
- It could just be her personality and character. Especially if she’s Latino or something. They are very giving and selfless. May be reading too much in to it all.
Or
- She’s trying to buy your interest by showing you she’s a good home maker and worthy of your deeper investment, would be willing a ready to dive in to the next step.
If there’s no real issues or red flags, there’s no real harm going down. And she knows you’re open to others. And you’re getting laid. Time will tell her current actions; around 4-5 months I’d say.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RickTheToad
Moderator
She's time she says, but likes gifts on occassion (my gifts to her are my time and activites we do together). I'm acts of kindness and appreciation. I never like the gifts people give to me; unless it's cash (rarely happens nowadays).
RickTheToad
Moderator
Need some pics first. We'd also need a few trials on how you are between the sheets. ;'p
Desdinova
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Hey! Fvck you! I want the bottles of wine!
