RickTheToad
Moderator
I don't need any to support me or buy me things. I can take care of myself. I do not like the fox body anyway. The one after, mid 90's is the sh!t; IMHO.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She keeps on buying me things...
- Thread starter RickTheToad
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Not all bells and whistles. Still learning about this one... No real negatives or any red flags... Yet... Again, still investigating.
RickTheToad
Moderator
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backseatjuan
Banned
Fox is twice lighter, I too like terminator. But also fox.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
I would just hold the position with her. Keep doing what you’re doing, enjoying time spent and such.
- It could just be her personality and character. Especially if she’s Latino or something. They are very giving and selfless. May be reading too much in to it all.
Or
- She’s trying to buy your interest by showing you she’s a good home maker and worthy of your deeper investment, would be willing a ready to dive in to the next step.
If there’s no real issues or red flags, there’s no real harm going down. And she knows you’re open to others. And you’re getting laid. Time will tell her current actions; around 4-5 months I’d say.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RickTheToad
Moderator
She's time she says, but likes gifts on occassion (my gifts to her are my time and activites we do together). I'm acts of kindness and appreciation. I never like the gifts people give to me; unless it's cash (rarely happens nowadays).
RickTheToad
Moderator
Need some pics first. We'd also need a few trials on how you are between the sheets. ;'p
Desdinova
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Hey! Fvck you! I want the bottles of wine!
