Dante420
Master Don Juan
How do I confirm our plans? Do I shoot over a comment? does that make me look desperate?
What do I say so it doesn't sounds desperate
What do I say so it doesn't sounds desperate
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She Has No Phone: Only MYSPACE - How to Confirm Plans for Tomorrow?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dante420
Master Don Juan
Taste said:
HOw do I word the messsage
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The only thing you can do here is just send her a message. If she's interested, she'll get back to you. If not, just spin more plates.
The fine for worrying about these other factors like if the message is worded right or if she got a boyfriend is unnecessary stressing yourself out over nothing. It can also include blue balls.
Become Nike. Just Do It.
Case closed.
The fine for worrying about these other factors like if the message is worded right or if she got a boyfriend is unnecessary stressing yourself out over nothing. It can also include blue balls.
Become Nike. Just Do It.
Case closed.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Sounds like you may have to put more effort than needed to try and date this girl. How can she not have a phone?
Anyways, just tell her you are doing something on a certin day. Something that you like to do perferably. Remember, "Action-Dates". Then, say "So, if you wanna have some fun you should join me." If she accepts tell her when you will meet her.
From there is up to you.
Anyways, just tell her you are doing something on a certin day. Something that you like to do perferably. Remember, "Action-Dates". Then, say "So, if you wanna have some fun you should join me." If she accepts tell her when you will meet her.
From there is up to you.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.