"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She Has No Phone: Only MYSPACE - How to Confirm Plans for Tomorrow?

Dante420

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How do I confirm our plans? Do I shoot over a comment? does that make me look desperate?

What do I say so it doesn't sounds desperate
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dante420 said:
How do I confirm our plans? Do I shoot over a comment? does that make me look desperate?

What do I say so it doesn't sounds desperate
Just send her a message man. How is that desperate? It's just another way to communicate with her...
 

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The only thing you can do here is just send her a message. If she's interested, she'll get back to you. If not, just spin more plates.

The fine for worrying about these other factors like if the message is worded right or if she got a boyfriend is unnecessary stressing yourself out over nothing. It can also include blue balls.

Become Nike. Just Do It.

Case closed.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Sounds like you may have to put more effort than needed to try and date this girl. How can she not have a phone?

Anyways, just tell her you are doing something on a certin day. Something that you like to do perferably. Remember, "Action-Dates". Then, say "So, if you wanna have some fun you should join me." If she accepts tell her when you will meet her.

From there is up to you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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