"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She Has No Phone: Only MYSPACE - How to Confirm Plans for Tomorrow?

Dante420

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How do I confirm our plans? Do I shoot over a comment? does that make me look desperate?

What do I say so it doesn't sounds desperate
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dante420 said:
How do I confirm our plans? Do I shoot over a comment? does that make me look desperate?

What do I say so it doesn't sounds desperate
Just send her a message man. How is that desperate? It's just another way to communicate with her...
 

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The only thing you can do here is just send her a message. If she's interested, she'll get back to you. If not, just spin more plates.

The fine for worrying about these other factors like if the message is worded right or if she got a boyfriend is unnecessary stressing yourself out over nothing. It can also include blue balls.

Become Nike. Just Do It.

Case closed.
 

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Sounds like you may have to put more effort than needed to try and date this girl. How can she not have a phone?

Anyways, just tell her you are doing something on a certin day. Something that you like to do perferably. Remember, "Action-Dates". Then, say "So, if you wanna have some fun you should join me." If she accepts tell her when you will meet her.

From there is up to you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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