Dante420
Master Don Juan
How do I confirm our plans? Do I shoot over a comment? does that make me look desperate?
What do I say so it doesn't sounds desperate
What do I say so it doesn't sounds desperate
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She Has No Phone: Only MYSPACE - How to Confirm Plans for Tomorrow?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dante420
Master Don Juan
Taste said:
HOw do I word the messsage
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The only thing you can do here is just send her a message. If she's interested, she'll get back to you. If not, just spin more plates.
The fine for worrying about these other factors like if the message is worded right or if she got a boyfriend is unnecessary stressing yourself out over nothing. It can also include blue balls.
Become Nike. Just Do It.
Case closed.
The fine for worrying about these other factors like if the message is worded right or if she got a boyfriend is unnecessary stressing yourself out over nothing. It can also include blue balls.
Become Nike. Just Do It.
Case closed.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Sounds like you may have to put more effort than needed to try and date this girl. How can she not have a phone?
Anyways, just tell her you are doing something on a certin day. Something that you like to do perferably. Remember, "Action-Dates". Then, say "So, if you wanna have some fun you should join me." If she accepts tell her when you will meet her.
From there is up to you.
Anyways, just tell her you are doing something on a certin day. Something that you like to do perferably. Remember, "Action-Dates". Then, say "So, if you wanna have some fun you should join me." If she accepts tell her when you will meet her.
From there is up to you.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.