"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She has herpes part II

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I'll stop her before she gets to your house, and I'll END this.... you made me do this murk, I'm sorry
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'll stop her before she gets to your house, and I'll END this.... you made me do this murk, I'm sorry
Hahaha

Sophie stayed over and got train to work this morning, leaving her car parked outside mine. She’s due back about 6:30pm by which time I’ll have Alison here, how exciting. I’ll get started on that bottle of red.
 

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But if I wear a condom... it’s type 1... 60% of people have it and including some of you
We both know ur type, you'll forget to wear it in the heat of the moment...

And I thought by posting the expressive thread would help.
 

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We both know ur type, you'll forget to wear it in the heat of the moment...

And I thought by posting the expressive thread would help.
I think I’m just doomed, I have a self destructive nature as my therapist pointed out. So careless.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well it’s too late now she’s travelling to me in Essex from South London. I’ve also just cleaned my toilet and bathroom for the first time in 4 months, I will not let this cleaning go wasted.
 

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I think I’m just doomed, I have a self destructive nature as my therapist pointed out. So careless.
We both know you love and breath this shiet man.

Without it you won't feel alive.

Just be careful and learn to temper down those emotions.
 

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Do you get hsv1 on your lips? If you do get cold sores on your lip and she indeed has mouth herpes on her vag... you cannot contract it again on your penor. I wouldn’t trust taking her word for it... hsv2 will get on your junk. I don’t know if I could even get my junk to work knowing any herpes was lurking down there.... I remember one time in the heat of the moment I asked a 9-10 if she was clean... and she said I guess... I just had my yearly check up.... instant deflation... I said just so you know I have nothing and she said who cares.... f me... I immediately backed out and retreated. A few months later my buddy was telling me his co worker was cheating on his wife with this same chick and contracted herpes.... no hiding a massive blister breakout in a marriage and was served divorce papers pretty quick.
 

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Do you get hsv1 on your lips? If you do get cold sores on your lip and she indeed has mouth herpes on her vag... you cannot contract it again on your penor. I wouldn’t trust taking her word for it... hsv2 will get on your junk. I don’t know if I could even get my junk to work knowing any herpes was lurking down there.... I remember one time in the heat of the moment I asked a 9-10 if she was clean... and she said I guess... I just had my yearly check up.... instant deflation... I said just so you know I have nothing and she said who cares.... f me... I immediately backed out and retreated. A few months later my buddy was telling me his co worker was cheating on his wife with this same chick and contracted herpes.... no hiding a massive blister breakout in a marriage and was served divorce papers pretty quick.
HSV2 blisters are way more invasive and nasty than HSV1. Not pleasant or ignorable.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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But if I wear a condom... it’s type 1... 60% of people have it and including some of you
So if 60% of people jump off a bridge.. you jumping next?

You keep mentioning that you're self destructive, which means you're aware enough to recognize the problem. Yet you're doing nothing to change it. That's very sad, Murk. After being aware, anything you say to justify your destructive actions is just an excuse.
 
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He's just desperate for pu$$y and he'll fukc just about anything it seems. Pretty sad. Find some hobbies bro and get some self respect.
 
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