"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She has herpes part II

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I'll stop her before she gets to your house, and I'll END this.... you made me do this murk, I'm sorry
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'll stop her before she gets to your house, and I'll END this.... you made me do this murk, I'm sorry
Hahaha

Sophie stayed over and got train to work this morning, leaving her car parked outside mine. She’s due back about 6:30pm by which time I’ll have Alison here, how exciting. I’ll get started on that bottle of red.
 

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But if I wear a condom... it’s type 1... 60% of people have it and including some of you
We both know ur type, you'll forget to wear it in the heat of the moment...

And I thought by posting the expressive thread would help.
 

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We both know ur type, you'll forget to wear it in the heat of the moment...

And I thought by posting the expressive thread would help.
I think I’m just doomed, I have a self destructive nature as my therapist pointed out. So careless.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well it’s too late now she’s travelling to me in Essex from South London. I’ve also just cleaned my toilet and bathroom for the first time in 4 months, I will not let this cleaning go wasted.
 

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I think I’m just doomed, I have a self destructive nature as my therapist pointed out. So careless.
We both know you love and breath this shiet man.

Without it you won't feel alive.

Just be careful and learn to temper down those emotions.
 

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Do you get hsv1 on your lips? If you do get cold sores on your lip and she indeed has mouth herpes on her vag... you cannot contract it again on your penor. I wouldn’t trust taking her word for it... hsv2 will get on your junk. I don’t know if I could even get my junk to work knowing any herpes was lurking down there.... I remember one time in the heat of the moment I asked a 9-10 if she was clean... and she said I guess... I just had my yearly check up.... instant deflation... I said just so you know I have nothing and she said who cares.... f me... I immediately backed out and retreated. A few months later my buddy was telling me his co worker was cheating on his wife with this same chick and contracted herpes.... no hiding a massive blister breakout in a marriage and was served divorce papers pretty quick.
 

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Do you get hsv1 on your lips? If you do get cold sores on your lip and she indeed has mouth herpes on her vag... you cannot contract it again on your penor. I wouldn’t trust taking her word for it... hsv2 will get on your junk. I don’t know if I could even get my junk to work knowing any herpes was lurking down there.... I remember one time in the heat of the moment I asked a 9-10 if she was clean... and she said I guess... I just had my yearly check up.... instant deflation... I said just so you know I have nothing and she said who cares.... f me... I immediately backed out and retreated. A few months later my buddy was telling me his co worker was cheating on his wife with this same chick and contracted herpes.... no hiding a massive blister breakout in a marriage and was served divorce papers pretty quick.
HSV2 blisters are way more invasive and nasty than HSV1. Not pleasant or ignorable.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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But if I wear a condom... it’s type 1... 60% of people have it and including some of you
So if 60% of people jump off a bridge.. you jumping next?

You keep mentioning that you're self destructive, which means you're aware enough to recognize the problem. Yet you're doing nothing to change it. That's very sad, Murk. After being aware, anything you say to justify your destructive actions is just an excuse.
 
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He's just desperate for pu$$y and he'll fukc just about anything it seems. Pretty sad. Find some hobbies bro and get some self respect.
 
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