Sh!t Tests for Dummies

[Urbanyst]

(Sigh...) There you go again... putting words in my mouth. Where have I said anything about 'losing control', and I never said anything about caring what women think. You are losing this argument and the only way I believe you think you can win this is to imply I'm saying things that I'm not. Either that or you are having problems understanding the words that I am typing. I said men should exhibit SELF-Control. Which is much broader. It as just as important to exhibit self-control and not get all mushy with a chick, as it is to maintain self-control when confronted with situation that could make you angry.

If you are honestly angry, then you are what you are.... what I am saying it that you should not let sh!t women do get you to the point where you are angry. Self-control means NOT GETTING ANGRY. I never said anything about hiding your feelings from a chick... you can't do that. If you are mad... she will know., if you are happy, she will know it, when you are head over heels in love with her to the point where she can do no wrong... she will fvcking know and then she owns your ass. This isn't about 'hiding' emotions, it's about controlling your emotions.

Woman are going to have an opinion of me regardless of what I do or if I care, this is another straw-man you have erected and 'bravely' dispatched. They can either believe I am a man who does not let his emotion dictate behavior, or they are not. What do you think works best in life?

Losing what argument? When did I say men should lose control?

Never getting angry at anything a woman does is not realistic or human. Its cartoon character fantasy. Its also stupid to believe certain people should never be able to anger you.

Hell even when I had a damn dog he would make me mad sometimes. So do kids, men, bad drivers, crappy service at a restaurant and WOMEN. Welcome to the real world. Everyone gets annoying sometimes. Not sure why people with vaginas are so special that they should be "exempt" from getting under your skin lol.

 

[soulforge]

Losing what argument? When did I say men should lose control?

Never getting angry at anything a woman does is not realistic or human. Its cartoon character fantasy. Its also stupid to believe certain people should never be able to anger you.

Hell even when I had a damn dog he would make me mad sometimes. So do kids, men, bad drivers, crappy service at a restaurant and WOMEN. Welcome to the real world. Everyone gets annoying sometimes. Not sure why people with vaginas are so special that they should be "exempt" from getting under your skin lol.

I believe a man should do his very best not to lose control..

It all depends on what type of female you are dealing with.. Some woman will certainly push you to the point of anger..

Especially with disrespect.. Some disrespectful behaviour can make my blood oil..

I have to agree with urbanyst.. Anger is just another natural emotion that humans feel, as well has happiness or sadness!

To control and manage it to the point, where you NEVER get angry with a female, requires a huge amount of self control.. not every man can have that type of control.

 

[RangerMIke]

Losing what argument? When did I say men should lose control?

Never getting angry at anything a woman does is not realistic or human. Its cartoon character fantasy. Its also stupid to believe certain people should never be able to anger you.

Hell even when I had a damn dog he would make me mad sometimes. So do kids, men, bad drivers, crappy service at a restaurant and WOMEN. Welcome to the real world. Everyone gets annoying sometimes. Not sure why people with vaginas are so special that they should be "exempt" from getting under your skin lol.

I never suggested you said men should lose control. I made a general statement that men losing control does not help them. Why are you having such a hard time with this. Getting angry NEVER helps you PERIOD. Sure it happens, but NOTHING good comes for the emotion of anger. We are men not chicks, we are capable of controlling our emotions. If you believe that getting your emotions under control is cartoonish then I feel sorry for you. It's not just about relationships with women... it is EVERYTHING in life. If someone walks up to you and punches you in the face, the first thing you should do is get control of your anger so that you can effectively evaluate what is going on around you and respond effectively But if you are mad and start just flaying away you are much more likely to make a mistake. You should respond... but you respond effectively, anger gets in the way of effectiveness.

I never said you should NEVER get angry, only that when chicks do chick sh!t that shouldn't bother you because it's just chicks being chicks. I've gotten angry with women... when they do things that do things that are clearly stupid... like wreaking my car while putting on make-up, leaving my door open and letting out the dog... But getting angry with chicks tossing you a sh!t test, or flaking... pointless. If you want to jump in that wild dog pit and get in a relationship with a chick, and while she is with you fvcks your best friend, then yea you can get mad at her... but you should also kick yourself for doing relationships

I never said people with vaginas are exempt from making you angry... but if you get angry when a chick tossing you a sh!t test would be like shaking your fist at the sky for raining. Rain happens, getting mad at it is stupid. Chicks being chicks happens, getting mad at that is stupid.

 

[Urbanyst]

I never suggested you said men should lose control. I made a general statement that men losing control does not help them. Why are you having such a hard time with this. Getting angry NEVER helps you PERIOD. Sure it happens, but NOTHING good comes for the emotion of anger. We are men not chicks, we are capable of controlling our emotions. If you believe that getting your emotions under control is cartoonish then I feel sorry for you. It's not just about relationships with women... it is EVERYTHING in life. If someone walks up to you and punches you in the face, the first thing you should do is get control of your anger so that you can effectively evaluate what is going on around you and respond effectively But if you are mad and start just flaying away you are much more likely to make a mistake. You should respond... but you respond effectively, anger gets in the way of effectiveness.

I never said you should NEVER get angry, only that when chicks do chick sh!t that shouldn't bother you because it's just chicks being chicks. I've gotten angry with women... when they do things that do things that are clearly stupid... like wreaking my car while putting on make-up, leaving my door open and letting out the dog... But getting angry with chicks tossing you a sh!t test, or flaking... pointless. If you want to jump in that wild dog pit and get in a relationship with a chick, and while she is with you fvcks your best friend, then yea you can get mad at her... but you should also kick yourself for doing relationships

I never said people with vaginas are exempt from making you angry... but if you get angry when a chick tossing you a sh!t test would be like shaking your fist at the sky for raining. Rain happens, getting mad at it is stupid. Chicks being chicks happens, getting mad at that is stupid.

So we agree then?

Don't lose control like an idiot (never said you should) but getting angry is a normal part of human life.

Cool.