"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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  1. B

    Flipping the script....

    I have noticed that girls tend to ask questions like where are you from, what do you do etc not because they want to get to know me but as a way to sort of put me in a category of whether or not she’s interested. To flip the script, i could reframe the questions she asks into another question...
  2. darksprezzatura

    Sh!t Tests for Dummies

    What are sh!t tests? Everybody lies. A woman's value primarily revolves around her appearance, fertility, body proportions and symmetry. They still work hard to lie through makeup and body modifications. Similarly a man might lie about his skills, money, lifestyle and place in social...
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