"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sexual state vs. "I dont want her" state...

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I know I already have haters.

But this something I wanted to discuss.

When I get horny or that sexual state...I feel pressured and it doesn't feel right to me on a date UNLESS we are isolated in the room.

I tried that and it didn't work...the date was just real uncomfy with that.


Here is what worked with the same girl on the next date - having a mindset of "I don't want her unless she proves she is really that good".

However, in THAT state I don't get horny, I just check her out and feel no pressure because I don't want her to begin with. It drove her (and other girls previously to her) NUTS.

So, I'm not showing my testosterone side to her and she loves it, grabs me, kisses me, etc. and tomorrow we're at my place watching a movie...

What can you say about this? Both methods work then? There is third method - emotional. I think that one gets you a GF rathern than just laid.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think this character 'babnik' needs some pvssy STAT...

Come to NYC, seriously... I will cure u...


-Cod3r
 

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Check your other thread... answered this issue.
 

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Cod3r said:
I think this character 'babnik' needs some pvssy STAT...

Come to NYC, seriously... I will cure u...


-Cod3r
I'm coming to Brooklyn for a month. December 18th through January 14th.
 

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Please call me... PM me for my cell number...

I will help you, u need SO much help. I'd be ignorant not to take you out with me. I really feel sorry for you and we'll take lots of pictures, to prove that guys like you can change... I hope u take my offer...



-Cod3r
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cod3r said:
Please call me... PM me for my cell number...

I will help you, u need SO much help. I'd be ignorant not to take you out with me. I really feel sorry for you and we'll take lots of pictures, to prove that guys like you can change... I hope u take my offer...



-Cod3r

You're serious aren't you? I got all of Russian Mafia from Brighton and Bay Area with me, so don't try anything funky.. :).
 

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Remulak said:
The "I don't give a shyt" mentality works the best for me with a touch of sexuality.
Exactly.
Thats what my post said, in his other thread.

Its a matter of utilizing your sexual state, but not being owned by it... like a desperate chump. If she enjoys your "I'm gonna pound your kitten pvssy" eyes, Cool. If not... Cool. You don't need "others" validation to pimp a suave existance. Therin lies the attractive value of such an attitude.

Peace'

 

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I guess I just have to use what works for me and thats it!
 
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