I know I already have haters.
But this something I wanted to discuss.
When I get horny or that sexual state...I feel pressured and it doesn't feel right to me on a date UNLESS we are isolated in the room.
I tried that and it didn't work...the date was just real uncomfy with that.
Here is what worked with the same girl on the next date - having a mindset of "I don't want her unless she proves she is really that good".
However, in THAT state I don't get horny, I just check her out and feel no pressure because I don't want her to begin with. It drove her (and other girls previously to her) NUTS.
So, I'm not showing my testosterone side to her and she loves it, grabs me, kisses me, etc. and tomorrow we're at my place watching a movie...
What can you say about this? Both methods work then? There is third method - emotional. I think that one gets you a GF rathern than just laid.
But this something I wanted to discuss.
When I get horny or that sexual state...I feel pressured and it doesn't feel right to me on a date UNLESS we are isolated in the room.
I tried that and it didn't work...the date was just real uncomfy with that.
Here is what worked with the same girl on the next date - having a mindset of "I don't want her unless she proves she is really that good".
However, in THAT state I don't get horny, I just check her out and feel no pressure because I don't want her to begin with. It drove her (and other girls previously to her) NUTS.
So, I'm not showing my testosterone side to her and she loves it, grabs me, kisses me, etc. and tomorrow we're at my place watching a movie...
What can you say about this? Both methods work then? There is third method - emotional. I think that one gets you a GF rathern than just laid.