"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sexual state vs. "I dont want her" state...

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I know I already have haters.

But this something I wanted to discuss.

When I get horny or that sexual state...I feel pressured and it doesn't feel right to me on a date UNLESS we are isolated in the room.

I tried that and it didn't work...the date was just real uncomfy with that.


Here is what worked with the same girl on the next date - having a mindset of "I don't want her unless she proves she is really that good".

However, in THAT state I don't get horny, I just check her out and feel no pressure because I don't want her to begin with. It drove her (and other girls previously to her) NUTS.

So, I'm not showing my testosterone side to her and she loves it, grabs me, kisses me, etc. and tomorrow we're at my place watching a movie...

What can you say about this? Both methods work then? There is third method - emotional. I think that one gets you a GF rathern than just laid.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think this character 'babnik' needs some pvssy STAT...

Come to NYC, seriously... I will cure u...


-Cod3r
 

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Check your other thread... answered this issue.
 

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Cod3r said:
I think this character 'babnik' needs some pvssy STAT...

Come to NYC, seriously... I will cure u...


-Cod3r
I'm coming to Brooklyn for a month. December 18th through January 14th.
 

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Please call me... PM me for my cell number...

I will help you, u need SO much help. I'd be ignorant not to take you out with me. I really feel sorry for you and we'll take lots of pictures, to prove that guys like you can change... I hope u take my offer...



-Cod3r
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cod3r said:
Please call me... PM me for my cell number...

I will help you, u need SO much help. I'd be ignorant not to take you out with me. I really feel sorry for you and we'll take lots of pictures, to prove that guys like you can change... I hope u take my offer...



-Cod3r

You're serious aren't you? I got all of Russian Mafia from Brighton and Bay Area with me, so don't try anything funky.. :).
 

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Remulak said:
The "I don't give a shyt" mentality works the best for me with a touch of sexuality.
Exactly.
Thats what my post said, in his other thread.

Its a matter of utilizing your sexual state, but not being owned by it... like a desperate chump. If she enjoys your "I'm gonna pound your kitten pvssy" eyes, Cool. If not... Cool. You don't need "others" validation to pimp a suave existance. Therin lies the attractive value of such an attitude.

Peace'

 

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I guess I just have to use what works for me and thats it!
 
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