Sexual state vs. "I dont want her" state...

[Babnik]

I know I already have haters.

But this something I wanted to discuss.

When I get horny or that sexual state...I feel pressured and it doesn't feel right to me on a date UNLESS we are isolated in the room.

I tried that and it didn't work...the date was just real uncomfy with that.


Here is what worked with the same girl on the next date - having a mindset of "I don't want her unless she proves she is really that good".

However, in THAT state I don't get horny, I just check her out and feel no pressure because I don't want her to begin with. It drove her (and other girls previously to her) NUTS.

So, I'm not showing my testosterone side to her and she loves it, grabs me, kisses me, etc. and tomorrow we're at my place watching a movie...

What can you say about this? Both methods work then? There is third method - emotional. I think that one gets you a GF rathern than just laid.

 

[Cod3r]

I think this character 'babnik' needs some pvssy STAT...

Come to NYC, seriously... I will cure u...


-Cod3r

 

[DarkLight]

Check your other thread... answered this issue.

 

[Babnik]

I think this character 'babnik' needs some pvssy STAT...

Come to NYC, seriously... I will cure u...


-Cod3r

I'm coming to Brooklyn for a month. December 18th through January 14th.

 

[Cod3r]

Please call me... PM me for my cell number...

I will help you, u need SO much help. I'd be ignorant not to take you out with me. I really feel sorry for you and we'll take lots of pictures, to prove that guys like you can change... I hope u take my offer...



-Cod3r

 

[Remulak]

The "I don't give a shyt" mentality works the best for me with a touch of sexuality.

 

[Babnik]

Please call me... PM me for my cell number...

I will help you, u need SO much help. I'd be ignorant not to take you out with me. I really feel sorry for you and we'll take lots of pictures, to prove that guys like you can change... I hope u take my offer...



-Cod3r

You're serious aren't you? I got all of Russian Mafia from Brighton and Bay Area with me, so don't try anything funky.. .

 

[DarkLight]

The "I don't give a shyt" mentality works the best for me with a touch of sexuality.

Exactly.
Thats what my post said, in his other thread.

Its a matter of utilizing your sexual state, but not being owned by it... like a desperate chump. If she enjoys your "I'm gonna pound your kitten pvssy" eyes, Cool. If not... Cool. You don't need "others" validation to pimp a suave existance. Therin lies the attractive value of such an attitude.

Peace'

 

[Babnik]

I guess I just have to use what works for me and thats it!