Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sexual state vs. "I dont want her" state...

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I know I already have haters.

But this something I wanted to discuss.

When I get horny or that sexual state...I feel pressured and it doesn't feel right to me on a date UNLESS we are isolated in the room.

I tried that and it didn't work...the date was just real uncomfy with that.


Here is what worked with the same girl on the next date - having a mindset of "I don't want her unless she proves she is really that good".

However, in THAT state I don't get horny, I just check her out and feel no pressure because I don't want her to begin with. It drove her (and other girls previously to her) NUTS.

So, I'm not showing my testosterone side to her and she loves it, grabs me, kisses me, etc. and tomorrow we're at my place watching a movie...

What can you say about this? Both methods work then? There is third method - emotional. I think that one gets you a GF rathern than just laid.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think this character 'babnik' needs some pvssy STAT...

Come to NYC, seriously... I will cure u...


-Cod3r
 

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Check your other thread... answered this issue.
 

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Cod3r said:
I think this character 'babnik' needs some pvssy STAT...

Come to NYC, seriously... I will cure u...


-Cod3r
I'm coming to Brooklyn for a month. December 18th through January 14th.
 

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Please call me... PM me for my cell number...

I will help you, u need SO much help. I'd be ignorant not to take you out with me. I really feel sorry for you and we'll take lots of pictures, to prove that guys like you can change... I hope u take my offer...



-Cod3r
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cod3r said:
Please call me... PM me for my cell number...

I will help you, u need SO much help. I'd be ignorant not to take you out with me. I really feel sorry for you and we'll take lots of pictures, to prove that guys like you can change... I hope u take my offer...



-Cod3r

You're serious aren't you? I got all of Russian Mafia from Brighton and Bay Area with me, so don't try anything funky.. :).
 

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Remulak said:
The "I don't give a shyt" mentality works the best for me with a touch of sexuality.
Exactly.
Thats what my post said, in his other thread.

Its a matter of utilizing your sexual state, but not being owned by it... like a desperate chump. If she enjoys your "I'm gonna pound your kitten pvssy" eyes, Cool. If not... Cool. You don't need "others" validation to pimp a suave existance. Therin lies the attractive value of such an attitude.

Peace'

 

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I guess I just have to use what works for me and thats it!
 
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