"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sexual state vs. "I dont want her" state...

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I know I already have haters.

But this something I wanted to discuss.

When I get horny or that sexual state...I feel pressured and it doesn't feel right to me on a date UNLESS we are isolated in the room.

I tried that and it didn't work...the date was just real uncomfy with that.


Here is what worked with the same girl on the next date - having a mindset of "I don't want her unless she proves she is really that good".

However, in THAT state I don't get horny, I just check her out and feel no pressure because I don't want her to begin with. It drove her (and other girls previously to her) NUTS.

So, I'm not showing my testosterone side to her and she loves it, grabs me, kisses me, etc. and tomorrow we're at my place watching a movie...

What can you say about this? Both methods work then? There is third method - emotional. I think that one gets you a GF rathern than just laid.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think this character 'babnik' needs some pvssy STAT...

Come to NYC, seriously... I will cure u...


-Cod3r
 

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Check your other thread... answered this issue.
 

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Cod3r said:
I think this character 'babnik' needs some pvssy STAT...

Come to NYC, seriously... I will cure u...


-Cod3r
I'm coming to Brooklyn for a month. December 18th through January 14th.
 

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Please call me... PM me for my cell number...

I will help you, u need SO much help. I'd be ignorant not to take you out with me. I really feel sorry for you and we'll take lots of pictures, to prove that guys like you can change... I hope u take my offer...



-Cod3r
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cod3r said:
Please call me... PM me for my cell number...

I will help you, u need SO much help. I'd be ignorant not to take you out with me. I really feel sorry for you and we'll take lots of pictures, to prove that guys like you can change... I hope u take my offer...



-Cod3r

You're serious aren't you? I got all of Russian Mafia from Brighton and Bay Area with me, so don't try anything funky.. :).
 

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Remulak said:
The "I don't give a shyt" mentality works the best for me with a touch of sexuality.
Exactly.
Thats what my post said, in his other thread.

Its a matter of utilizing your sexual state, but not being owned by it... like a desperate chump. If she enjoys your "I'm gonna pound your kitten pvssy" eyes, Cool. If not... Cool. You don't need "others" validation to pimp a suave existance. Therin lies the attractive value of such an attitude.

Peace'

 

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I guess I just have to use what works for me and thats it!
 
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