"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sexual charisma/@ura/magnetism

PeasantPlayer

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Good looking, status, money but still not pulling the women you want?

Maybe you lack sexual charisma/magnetism
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I mean yeah, what he is describing is a natural. Some guys just have it man, the friends I have who get laid the most are not the friends with the best job or the most financial freedom, nor is it my most attractive friends. Some people just have “it” and “it” isn’t just about getting laid, people just magnetize to them.
My uncle has “it”. Even at 45, fat and out of shape he goes to the bar and before you know it he has a crowd around him magnetized..

You can’t teach “it” you either have it or you don’t.
 

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I mean yeah, what he is describing is a natural. Some guys just have it man, the friends I have who get laid the most are not the friends with the best job or the most financial freedom, nor is it my most attractive friends. Some people just have “it” and “it” isn’t just about getting laid, people just magnetize to them.
My uncle has “it”. Even at 45, fat and out of shape he goes to the bar and before you know it he has a crowd around him magnetized..

You can’t teach “it” you either have it or you don’t.
You're right about a few things. Most of my friends who get laid the most were not the most attractive ones. It was pretty common, where I disagree is that you have it or you don't. I think every man has IT they just haven't found out how to utilizes their charisma, aura and sexual energy. Many co factors can go in to this. Poor mindset/ego excessive neediness, excessive masturbation.

For me personally I wonder if I have it or not. When he mentioned getting followed or having stalkers I can attest to that and I do draw women especially when I keep the fapping down to a minimum or no fap at all.
The video helps explain what should already be understood sexiness doesn't mean you're good looking. I've seen average chicks who ooze of sexual femininity and they are not my type. It could be possible for men to perhaps study their friends who have the IT factor
 
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