"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sexual charisma/@ura/magnetism

PeasantPlayer

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Good looking, status, money but still not pulling the women you want?

Maybe you lack sexual charisma/magnetism
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I mean yeah, what he is describing is a natural. Some guys just have it man, the friends I have who get laid the most are not the friends with the best job or the most financial freedom, nor is it my most attractive friends. Some people just have “it” and “it” isn’t just about getting laid, people just magnetize to them.
My uncle has “it”. Even at 45, fat and out of shape he goes to the bar and before you know it he has a crowd around him magnetized..

You can’t teach “it” you either have it or you don’t.
 

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I mean yeah, what he is describing is a natural. Some guys just have it man, the friends I have who get laid the most are not the friends with the best job or the most financial freedom, nor is it my most attractive friends. Some people just have “it” and “it” isn’t just about getting laid, people just magnetize to them.
My uncle has “it”. Even at 45, fat and out of shape he goes to the bar and before you know it he has a crowd around him magnetized..

You can’t teach “it” you either have it or you don’t.
You're right about a few things. Most of my friends who get laid the most were not the most attractive ones. It was pretty common, where I disagree is that you have it or you don't. I think every man has IT they just haven't found out how to utilizes their charisma, aura and sexual energy. Many co factors can go in to this. Poor mindset/ego excessive neediness, excessive masturbation.

For me personally I wonder if I have it or not. When he mentioned getting followed or having stalkers I can attest to that and I do draw women especially when I keep the fapping down to a minimum or no fap at all.
The video helps explain what should already be understood sexiness doesn't mean you're good looking. I've seen average chicks who ooze of sexual femininity and they are not my type. It could be possible for men to perhaps study their friends who have the IT factor
 
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