"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sexual charisma/@ura/magnetism

PeasantPlayer

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Good looking, status, money but still not pulling the women you want?

Maybe you lack sexual charisma/magnetism
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I mean yeah, what he is describing is a natural. Some guys just have it man, the friends I have who get laid the most are not the friends with the best job or the most financial freedom, nor is it my most attractive friends. Some people just have “it” and “it” isn’t just about getting laid, people just magnetize to them.
My uncle has “it”. Even at 45, fat and out of shape he goes to the bar and before you know it he has a crowd around him magnetized..

You can’t teach “it” you either have it or you don’t.
 

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I mean yeah, what he is describing is a natural. Some guys just have it man, the friends I have who get laid the most are not the friends with the best job or the most financial freedom, nor is it my most attractive friends. Some people just have “it” and “it” isn’t just about getting laid, people just magnetize to them.
My uncle has “it”. Even at 45, fat and out of shape he goes to the bar and before you know it he has a crowd around him magnetized..

You can’t teach “it” you either have it or you don’t.
You're right about a few things. Most of my friends who get laid the most were not the most attractive ones. It was pretty common, where I disagree is that you have it or you don't. I think every man has IT they just haven't found out how to utilizes their charisma, aura and sexual energy. Many co factors can go in to this. Poor mindset/ego excessive neediness, excessive masturbation.

For me personally I wonder if I have it or not. When he mentioned getting followed or having stalkers I can attest to that and I do draw women especially when I keep the fapping down to a minimum or no fap at all.
The video helps explain what should already be understood sexiness doesn't mean you're good looking. I've seen average chicks who ooze of sexual femininity and they are not my type. It could be possible for men to perhaps study their friends who have the IT factor
 
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