blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
Good point ganster, never looked at it that way.. but your right, Im the prize, feed me b#$#tch, lol
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ryannath said:I'm 21 and have had sex with a few older women, 26 and 27, and also a 19 yr old, and I must say that I prefer older women. I'm not talking like 40 yr olds, but mid to late 20s. To me it just seems girls younger than 20 are really immature. Idk, I just get a "little girl" vibe from them.
QFT. :rockon:Gangster Of Love said:You can laugh all you want, but if you're not qualifying THEM, regardless of how old they are, they are doing it to YOU, and they'll keep telling you that they "don't know where the kitchen is", and you'll be ok with it, and buy into it.
The point being, tactic not exclusive to older women. Women of any age are the target here. A couple of years ago, my 20 year old used to cook for me all the time. When they don't know how to cook, I often have them stop somewhere to bring me some food before they get to my place.
My women, at least most of the time, are either eager to come cook for me, to bring something, or to learn to cook something for me. That's just part of the criteria they must meet in order for me to serioulsy consider anything past the physical. I don't apologize for it either. Setting standards will get you far.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If I had to state an "ideal" age, it would be 26. Old enough to know better, young enough not to care.Latinoman said:A 26 and 27 year old woman is a woman in her PRIME. In my eyes...older woman for mature men are 35+ (AND 5+ years older).
Heck...mid to late 20s is the PERFECT GRAVY age in women.
Actually I was just planning on travelling to NZ and AUS and using my american exotic accent to lure the ladies in.L777 said:lol...fake it man, just watch a Bond movie and copy...and say "cheers", and "mate" a lot!!![]()
Lol I loved that and had to laugh. IME, you can PPP with any girl no matter what age and they'll love you for it!! Maybe I'm just hooking up with the wrong girls....BlackJackal said:I love a woman that wants me to pound the pvssy to the pavement.
That quotes copy written, so you cant use it....jk.lolL777 said:Lol I loved that and had to laugh. IME, you can PPP with any girl no matter what age and they'll love you for it!! Maybe I'm just hooking up with the wrong girls....
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.