Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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blackbelt2k

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Good point ganster, never looked at it that way.. but your right, Im the prize, feed me b#$#tch, lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Feed me bitsh is right! ha. There needs to be a separate thread on how to get them to be eager to cook for you and to seek your approval.
 

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ryannath said:
I'm 21 and have had sex with a few older women, 26 and 27, and also a 19 yr old, and I must say that I prefer older women. I'm not talking like 40 yr olds, but mid to late 20s. To me it just seems girls younger than 20 are really immature. Idk, I just get a "little girl" vibe from them.

A 26 and 27 year old woman is a woman in her PRIME. In my eyes...older woman for mature men are 35+ (AND 5+ years older).

Heck...mid to late 20s is the PERFECT GRAVY age in women.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
You can laugh all you want, but if you're not qualifying THEM, regardless of how old they are, they are doing it to YOU, and they'll keep telling you that they "don't know where the kitchen is", and you'll be ok with it, and buy into it.

The point being, tactic not exclusive to older women. Women of any age are the target here. A couple of years ago, my 20 year old used to cook for me all the time. When they don't know how to cook, I often have them stop somewhere to bring me some food before they get to my place.

My women, at least most of the time, are either eager to come cook for me, to bring something, or to learn to cook something for me. That's just part of the criteria they must meet in order for me to serioulsy consider anything past the physical. I don't apologize for it either. Setting standards will get you far.
QFT. :rockon:
 

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I like older women myself. My oldest was 32 though she looked 26. I love a woman that wants me to pound the pvssy to the pavement. Most younger girls aint on that level yet.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Latinoman said:
A 26 and 27 year old woman is a woman in her PRIME. In my eyes...older woman for mature men are 35+ (AND 5+ years older).

Heck...mid to late 20s is the PERFECT GRAVY age in women.
If I had to state an "ideal" age, it would be 26. Old enough to know better, young enough not to care.

And I'm glad that lately all you younger guys have this thing for older women. Keeps them off my back.
 

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L777 said:
lol...fake it man, just watch a Bond movie and copy...and say "cheers", and "mate" a lot!! :D
Actually I was just planning on travelling to NZ and AUS and using my american exotic accent to lure the ladies in. :cool:
 

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Or taking good ol' sparky's advice and going to ukraine to bang some slavic sluts!
 

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BlackJackal said:
I love a woman that wants me to pound the pvssy to the pavement.
Lol I loved that and had to laugh. IME, you can PPP with any girl no matter what age and they'll love you for it!! Maybe I'm just hooking up with the wrong girls....
 

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L777 said:
Lol I loved that and had to laugh. IME, you can PPP with any girl no matter what age and they'll love you for it!! Maybe I'm just hooking up with the wrong girls....
That quotes copy written, so you cant use it....jk.lol

Oh dont get me wrong a girl in my age bracket will get served with the same. But most young women dont have that attitude that just gets to you yet. They know what they want and what I want. My black women do it like that...lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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