blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
Good point ganster, never looked at it that way.. but your right, Im the prize, feed me b#$#tch, lol
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ryannath said:I'm 21 and have had sex with a few older women, 26 and 27, and also a 19 yr old, and I must say that I prefer older women. I'm not talking like 40 yr olds, but mid to late 20s. To me it just seems girls younger than 20 are really immature. Idk, I just get a "little girl" vibe from them.
QFT. :rockon:Gangster Of Love said:You can laugh all you want, but if you're not qualifying THEM, regardless of how old they are, they are doing it to YOU, and they'll keep telling you that they "don't know where the kitchen is", and you'll be ok with it, and buy into it.
The point being, tactic not exclusive to older women. Women of any age are the target here. A couple of years ago, my 20 year old used to cook for me all the time. When they don't know how to cook, I often have them stop somewhere to bring me some food before they get to my place.
My women, at least most of the time, are either eager to come cook for me, to bring something, or to learn to cook something for me. That's just part of the criteria they must meet in order for me to serioulsy consider anything past the physical. I don't apologize for it either. Setting standards will get you far.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If I had to state an "ideal" age, it would be 26. Old enough to know better, young enough not to care.Latinoman said:A 26 and 27 year old woman is a woman in her PRIME. In my eyes...older woman for mature men are 35+ (AND 5+ years older).
Heck...mid to late 20s is the PERFECT GRAVY age in women.
Actually I was just planning on travelling to NZ and AUS and using my american exotic accent to lure the ladies in.L777 said:lol...fake it man, just watch a Bond movie and copy...and say "cheers", and "mate" a lot!!![]()
Lol I loved that and had to laugh. IME, you can PPP with any girl no matter what age and they'll love you for it!! Maybe I'm just hooking up with the wrong girls....BlackJackal said:I love a woman that wants me to pound the pvssy to the pavement.
That quotes copy written, so you cant use it....jk.lolL777 said:Lol I loved that and had to laugh. IME, you can PPP with any girl no matter what age and they'll love you for it!! Maybe I'm just hooking up with the wrong girls....
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.