blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
Good point ganster, never looked at it that way.. but your right, Im the prize, feed me b#$#tch, lol
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ryannath said:I'm 21 and have had sex with a few older women, 26 and 27, and also a 19 yr old, and I must say that I prefer older women. I'm not talking like 40 yr olds, but mid to late 20s. To me it just seems girls younger than 20 are really immature. Idk, I just get a "little girl" vibe from them.
QFT. :rockon:Gangster Of Love said:You can laugh all you want, but if you're not qualifying THEM, regardless of how old they are, they are doing it to YOU, and they'll keep telling you that they "don't know where the kitchen is", and you'll be ok with it, and buy into it.
The point being, tactic not exclusive to older women. Women of any age are the target here. A couple of years ago, my 20 year old used to cook for me all the time. When they don't know how to cook, I often have them stop somewhere to bring me some food before they get to my place.
My women, at least most of the time, are either eager to come cook for me, to bring something, or to learn to cook something for me. That's just part of the criteria they must meet in order for me to serioulsy consider anything past the physical. I don't apologize for it either. Setting standards will get you far.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If I had to state an "ideal" age, it would be 26. Old enough to know better, young enough not to care.Latinoman said:A 26 and 27 year old woman is a woman in her PRIME. In my eyes...older woman for mature men are 35+ (AND 5+ years older).
Heck...mid to late 20s is the PERFECT GRAVY age in women.
Actually I was just planning on travelling to NZ and AUS and using my american exotic accent to lure the ladies in.L777 said:lol...fake it man, just watch a Bond movie and copy...and say "cheers", and "mate" a lot!!![]()
Lol I loved that and had to laugh. IME, you can PPP with any girl no matter what age and they'll love you for it!! Maybe I'm just hooking up with the wrong girls....BlackJackal said:I love a woman that wants me to pound the pvssy to the pavement.
That quotes copy written, so you cant use it....jk.lolL777 said:Lol I loved that and had to laugh. IME, you can PPP with any girl no matter what age and they'll love you for it!! Maybe I'm just hooking up with the wrong girls....
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.