blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
Good point ganster, never looked at it that way.. but your right, Im the prize, feed me b#$#tch, lol
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ryannath said:I'm 21 and have had sex with a few older women, 26 and 27, and also a 19 yr old, and I must say that I prefer older women. I'm not talking like 40 yr olds, but mid to late 20s. To me it just seems girls younger than 20 are really immature. Idk, I just get a "little girl" vibe from them.
QFT. :rockon:Gangster Of Love said:You can laugh all you want, but if you're not qualifying THEM, regardless of how old they are, they are doing it to YOU, and they'll keep telling you that they "don't know where the kitchen is", and you'll be ok with it, and buy into it.
The point being, tactic not exclusive to older women. Women of any age are the target here. A couple of years ago, my 20 year old used to cook for me all the time. When they don't know how to cook, I often have them stop somewhere to bring me some food before they get to my place.
My women, at least most of the time, are either eager to come cook for me, to bring something, or to learn to cook something for me. That's just part of the criteria they must meet in order for me to serioulsy consider anything past the physical. I don't apologize for it either. Setting standards will get you far.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If I had to state an "ideal" age, it would be 26. Old enough to know better, young enough not to care.Latinoman said:A 26 and 27 year old woman is a woman in her PRIME. In my eyes...older woman for mature men are 35+ (AND 5+ years older).
Heck...mid to late 20s is the PERFECT GRAVY age in women.
Actually I was just planning on travelling to NZ and AUS and using my american exotic accent to lure the ladies in.L777 said:lol...fake it man, just watch a Bond movie and copy...and say "cheers", and "mate" a lot!!![]()
Lol I loved that and had to laugh. IME, you can PPP with any girl no matter what age and they'll love you for it!! Maybe I'm just hooking up with the wrong girls....BlackJackal said:I love a woman that wants me to pound the pvssy to the pavement.
That quotes copy written, so you cant use it....jk.lolL777 said:Lol I loved that and had to laugh. IME, you can PPP with any girl no matter what age and they'll love you for it!! Maybe I'm just hooking up with the wrong girls....
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.