"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sex Tips to Please Women
- Thread starter B-Lemond
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
I was thinking in a Joe Dirt way "Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?"
The Real 5 Star Tips go to these guys:
B-Lemond said:
My girlfriend isn't into some of the stuff in here or it doesn't work well for her (every girl is different), but some of the advice I've put to great use and had amazing results. I tried the grinding during sex last night and she orgasmed 5 times through this alone and told me I blew her away, and just lay there afterwards saying "Oh god, oh god" for about 10 minutes.
Another tip I'll add to this is something I do regularly. Basically work your fingers extremely lightly and slowly over her body and thighs, gradually towards her cl!t, then starting rubbing lightly, teasingly moving away, then building up the focus and speed. Just as she's getting majorly excited and close to orgasm, slow down again or stop. Then start again slowly and build up, then slow down or stop. I do this several times and not only does it make the experience last a whole lot longer for her and drive her crazy to the point where she's begging me not to stop, but when I finally allow her to orgasm (note that I'm in total control) it's absolutely incredible! Then she literally begs me to fvck her and ends up having orgasm after orgasm!
The Sir Chancelot thread is a must-read. My ex, a beautiful model, read his posts and ended up getting so turned on she wanked herself silly.
In my 20 years of experience, the hotter they are, the more they want to be 'abused.' They get people kissing their ass everywhere they go and long for the simple discipline of childhood. Smack that ass, pull that hair, throw her up against a wall, treat her like a slut, that's what those dirty girls crave.
Not that I don't find the experience unstimulating myself.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.