"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sex Tips to Please Women
- Thread starter B-Lemond
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
I was thinking in a Joe Dirt way "Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?"
The Real 5 Star Tips go to these guys:
B-Lemond said:
My girlfriend isn't into some of the stuff in here or it doesn't work well for her (every girl is different), but some of the advice I've put to great use and had amazing results. I tried the grinding during sex last night and she orgasmed 5 times through this alone and told me I blew her away, and just lay there afterwards saying "Oh god, oh god" for about 10 minutes.
Another tip I'll add to this is something I do regularly. Basically work your fingers extremely lightly and slowly over her body and thighs, gradually towards her cl!t, then starting rubbing lightly, teasingly moving away, then building up the focus and speed. Just as she's getting majorly excited and close to orgasm, slow down again or stop. Then start again slowly and build up, then slow down or stop. I do this several times and not only does it make the experience last a whole lot longer for her and drive her crazy to the point where she's begging me not to stop, but when I finally allow her to orgasm (note that I'm in total control) it's absolutely incredible! Then she literally begs me to fvck her and ends up having orgasm after orgasm!
The Sir Chancelot thread is a must-read. My ex, a beautiful model, read his posts and ended up getting so turned on she wanked herself silly.
In my 20 years of experience, the hotter they are, the more they want to be 'abused.' They get people kissing their ass everywhere they go and long for the simple discipline of childhood. Smack that ass, pull that hair, throw her up against a wall, treat her like a slut, that's what those dirty girls crave.
Not that I don't find the experience unstimulating myself.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.