Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
B-Lemond said:9. Further Reading
Sir_Chancealot's Advanced sexual Techniques - Go to thread
Your Penis Didn't Come With a Manual. Here is one - Go to thread
Kuprin's Male Multiple Orgasm info - Go to thread
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nighthawk said:Women are much sicker than you think. Their number one fantasy is rape (by a handsome stranger they'd otherwise find attractive of course) but it's indicative of their burning need to feel powerless and dominated in bed. And when you get them in this role they will happily suck your **** til you get bored.
The Sir Chancelot thread is a must-read. My ex, a beautiful model, read his posts and ended up getting so turned on she wanked herself silly.
In my 20 years of experience, the hotter they are, the more they want to be 'abused.' They get people kissing their ass everywhere they go and long for the simple discipline of childhood. Smack that ass, pull that hair, throw her up against a wall, treat her like a slut, that's what those dirty girls crave.
Not that I don't find the experience unstimulating myself.