"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OP's woman is keeping emotional distance between them for whatever reason. Could be the Ex or something else. Bottom line, he moves on to a better prospect.
The distance is always the big flag.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your boyfriend wasn't properly into you.

I had a girl that told me "my last guy wouldn't do X, Y, and Z". I knew immediately what that was.

I'm telling you that a woman I'm properly into, I will lick her every inch. Girls that I'm not so into do not get head from me.

It is the same in reverse for a man.
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Some women are weird and will give head to a man they wouldn't put in their vagina.

Whereas, as a man, I wouldn't eat a puzzy that I wouldn't phvck. Actual
 
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mrgoodstuff said:
Some women are weird and will give head to a man they wouldn't put in their vagina.

Whereas, as a man, I wouldn't eat a puzzy that I wouldn't phvck. Actual
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We come in all shapes, sizes and flavors. The trick is to find the one you are compatible with. And that can feel more like a freaking magic trick sometimes!
 
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mrgoodstuff said:
So now you know you leave her completely alone. Find someone else to talk to and spend time with. If she gets an itch for you she will reach out. If she knows where you live and it's not super far I wouldn't respond to a text or call for at least a week. Let her knock at your door. Get busy on personal improvement and anything that needs to be done. If she doesn't come thru but calls or text in a week, keep the convo short, your busy. Frame the very short conversation around her hooking up with you, that's the only option.
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So she called me. After 20 minutes of talking she said we will speak again. Problem is I will have my hip surgery tomorrow and I am stuck in home (with very limited mobility) till about 15 January.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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EmotionalGeek said:
So she called me. After 20 minutes of talking she said we will speak again. Problem is I will have my hip surgery tomorrow and I am stuck in home (with very limited mobility) till about 15 January.
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This is a string along. She's making sure your still there "on the hook"... Ignore for about a week. If she know where you live, wait till she shows up at the door. Let her know you can't go anywhere till 1/15 anyway.
 
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mrgoodstuff said:
This is a string along. She's making sure your still there "on the hook"... Ignore for about a week. If she know where you live, wait till she shows up at the door. Let her know you can't go anywhere till 1/15 anyway.
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I agree. Let her make the next contact. In the interim, while you are laid up, read the DJ bible and learn. Then you'll know what to do.
 
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I agree. Let her make the next contact. In the interim, while you are laid up, read the DJ bible and learn. Then you'll know what to do.
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She WILL reach out. But it'll be another string along. Ignore for at least a week. Hopefully she shows up at your door or request a meeting.
 
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AIUI, prostitutes make it a point to not kiss their clients - hmm ...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MatureDJ said:
AIUI, prostitutes make it a point to not kiss their clients - hmm ...
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Hey bro. A lot of modern day women have borrowed stuff from prostitutes. The slvt clothing used to go in the clubs is what a prostitute will wear. They will have rules for dealing with multiple men at the same time. Then the no kissing thing so they won't catch feelings.

They will say that it's because they think it's gross. Maybe when they were younger they dealt with a few alpha's who REFUSED to kiss them, wouldn't eat them and only would have sex with her until he was satisfied and then it was over. This no-kissing thing gets made into a defense mechanism, "oh, I don't like kissing anyway" so the fact that the alpha's would never kiss them doesn't bother them. Some bs...
 
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mrgoodstuff said:
This is a string along. She's making sure your still there "on the hook"... Ignore for about a week. If she know where you live, wait till she shows up at the door. Let her know you can't go anywhere till 1/15 anyway.
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What is "stringing along" and what is a purpose of that? I am almost certain if she shows up she will ask why I whithdrew my attention. What would be a good answer to such question?
 
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sazc said:
I agree. Let her make the next contact. In the interim, while you are laid up, read the DJ bible and learn. Then you'll know what to do.
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I read few threads but did not found anything relevant to my situation.
 
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What is "stringing along" and what is a purpose of that? I am almost certain if she shows up she will ask why I whithdrew my attention. What would be a good answer to such question?
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She keeps you around for the attention. To know you are there possibly as a fallback.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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women like attention. they like attention from men and/or women. they especially like attention if money, dinner, gifts, etc are involved. She may think she can turn you into an orbiter.

you're not withdrawing anything, you are living your life.
if she asks why you withdrew your attention, just play dumb and say "what now?" and act confused like you have no clue what she is talking about.
 
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Weird... that's how escorts act/think.....
 
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