Sex but no french kisses

[Billtx49]

OP's woman is keeping emotional distance between them for whatever reason. Could be the Ex or something else. Bottom line, he moves on to a better prospect.
The distance is always the big flag.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Your boyfriend wasn't properly into you.

I had a girl that told me "my last guy wouldn't do X, Y, and Z". I knew immediately what that was.

I'm telling you that a woman I'm properly into, I will lick her every inch. Girls that I'm not so into do not get head from me.

It is the same in reverse for a man.

Some women are weird and will give head to a man they wouldn't put in their vagina.

Whereas, as a man, I wouldn't eat a puzzy that I wouldn't phvck. Actual

 

[sazc]

Some women are weird and will give head to a man they wouldn't put in their vagina.

Whereas, as a man, I wouldn't eat a puzzy that I wouldn't phvck. Actual

We come in all shapes, sizes and flavors. The trick is to find the one you are compatible with. And that can feel more like a freaking magic trick sometimes!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

We come in all shapes, sizes and flavors. The trick is to find the one you are compatible with. And that can feel more like a freaking magic trick sometimes!

Yeah when you are with one that the pieces fit, it is like magic. Everything is better.

 

[EmotionalGeek]

So now you know you leave her completely alone. Find someone else to talk to and spend time with. If she gets an itch for you she will reach out. If she knows where you live and it's not super far I wouldn't respond to a text or call for at least a week. Let her knock at your door. Get busy on personal improvement and anything that needs to be done. If she doesn't come thru but calls or text in a week, keep the convo short, your busy. Frame the very short conversation around her hooking up with you, that's the only option.

So she called me. After 20 minutes of talking she said we will speak again. Problem is I will have my hip surgery tomorrow and I am stuck in home (with very limited mobility) till about 15 January.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So she called me. After 20 minutes of talking she said we will speak again. Problem is I will have my hip surgery tomorrow and I am stuck in home (with very limited mobility) till about 15 January.

This is a string along. She's making sure your still there "on the hook"... Ignore for about a week. If she know where you live, wait till she shows up at the door. Let her know you can't go anywhere till 1/15 anyway.

 

[sazc]

This is a string along. She's making sure your still there "on the hook"... Ignore for about a week. If she know where you live, wait till she shows up at the door. Let her know you can't go anywhere till 1/15 anyway.

I agree. Let her make the next contact. In the interim, while you are laid up, read the DJ bible and learn. Then you'll know what to do.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I agree. Let her make the next contact. In the interim, while you are laid up, read the DJ bible and learn. Then you'll know what to do.

She WILL reach out. But it'll be another string along. Ignore for at least a week. Hopefully she shows up at your door or request a meeting.

 

[MatureDJ]

AIUI, prostitutes make it a point to not kiss their clients - hmm ...

 

[EmotionalGeek]

AIUI, prostitutes make it a point to not kiss their clients - hmm ...

That was a bit unappropriate. She makes as much money as I do and payed her part for all dates.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

AIUI, prostitutes make it a point to not kiss their clients - hmm ...

Hey bro. A lot of modern day women have borrowed stuff from prostitutes. The slvt clothing used to go in the clubs is what a prostitute will wear. They will have rules for dealing with multiple men at the same time. Then the no kissing thing so they won't catch feelings.

They will say that it's because they think it's gross. Maybe when they were younger they dealt with a few alpha's who REFUSED to kiss them, wouldn't eat them and only would have sex with her until he was satisfied and then it was over. This no-kissing thing gets made into a defense mechanism, "oh, I don't like kissing anyway" so the fact that the alpha's would never kiss them doesn't bother them. Some bs...

 

[EmotionalGeek]

This is a string along. She's making sure your still there "on the hook"... Ignore for about a week. If she know where you live, wait till she shows up at the door. Let her know you can't go anywhere till 1/15 anyway.

What is "stringing along" and what is a purpose of that? I am almost certain if she shows up she will ask why I whithdrew my attention. What would be a good answer to such question?

 

[EmotionalGeek]

I agree. Let her make the next contact. In the interim, while you are laid up, read the DJ bible and learn. Then you'll know what to do.

I read few threads but did not found anything relevant to my situation.

 

[sazc]

I read few threads but did not found anything relevant to my situation.

DJ Bible http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/

More reading http://www.sosuave.com/

Did you see the link at the bottom of this page? "The sosuave guide to women and dating? you can download it and read it. There's a ton of non forum so suave content you can read if you just click around.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What is "stringing along" and what is a purpose of that? I am almost certain if she shows up she will ask why I whithdrew my attention. What would be a good answer to such question?

She keeps you around for the attention. To know you are there possibly as a fallback.

 

[sazc]

women like attention. they like attention from men and/or women. they especially like attention if money, dinner, gifts, etc are involved. She may think she can turn you into an orbiter.

you're not withdrawing anything, you are living your life.
if she asks why you withdrew your attention, just play dumb and say "what now?" and act confused like you have no clue what she is talking about.

 

[Dingo]

Weird... that's how escorts act/think.....

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Weird... that's how escorts act/think.....

Why do they do it?

 

[Once Bitten]

In my experience, when a girl won't kiss you but has sex with you, she's smooching someone else's shaft.