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I am dating a girl for some time. On our first date we make out passionately with french kisses but no sex. Some time after we started having sex but after first date she barely kisses my mouth. I can kiss her whole body and make sex but she do not want to kiss my mouth. I do not understand this situation. Have you ever met girl like that or understand her behaviour?
 

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A lot of women view French kissing as more intimate than sex these days. Could be that she's not that into you. Either way, who cares. You're still smashing that poon on the regs so why does it matter.
 

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A lot of women view French kissing as more intimate than sex these days. Could be that she's not that into you. Either way, who cares. You're still smashing that poon on the regs so why does it matter.
Yeah, and also they will lock down avenues to ensure they don't get "hooked" on you. So the French kissing was cool to start, but French kissing and sex is a no no cause she might get hooked. Some women are sticklers for keeping a small distance.
 

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I am dating a girl for some time. On our first date we make out passionately with french kisses but no sex. Some time after we started having sex but after first date she barely kisses my mouth. I can kiss her whole body and make sex but she do not want to kiss my mouth. I do not understand this situation. Have you ever met girl like that or understand her behaviour?
My last boyfriend 'didn't like to kiss'. It was very non intimate having sex with him and not really kissing, much less passionately. After we split I decided to raise my standards and refuse to ever waste my time again on a man like that.
This is the same chick you were complaining about a month ago. You sure, with the continuing drama, she's worth it?
 

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I am dating a girl for some time. On our first date we make out passionately with french kisses but no sex. Some time after we started having sex but after first date she barely kisses my mouth. I can kiss her whole body and make sex but she do not want to kiss my mouth. I do not understand this situation. Have you ever met girl like that or understand her behaviour?
Try kissing her while she climaxes, when you get there, it will drive her nuts...
 

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My last boyfriend 'didn't like to kiss'. It was very non intimate having sex with him and not really kissing, much less passionately. After we split I decided to raise my standards and refuse to ever waste my time again on a man like that.
This is the same chick you were complaining about a month ago. You sure, with the continuing drama, she's worth it?
You have very good intuition. She is making some drama and complications but I am working on improving my game. Up to this point I found only one other possibility but she is not pretty enough. Another thing is that asking such questions and learning the answers is way to expand my knowledge which is very valuable for my future.
 

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Yeah, and also they will lock down avenues to ensure they don't get "hooked" on you. So the French kissing was cool to start, but French kissing and sex is a no no cause she might get hooked. Some women are sticklers for keeping a small distance.
It might be the case. She says she do not want me to fall in love but I actually thinks is about her not me.
 

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Hi E.M,
Anyone who plays with Asian Women a lot will experience this,kissing is Taboo in China,People just don't do it,they can't understand our Knowing or Flirtaceous winks either...You just get used to it People are all different,that's what makes being a DJ interesting.
 

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I am dating a girl for some time. On our first date we make out passionately with french kisses but no sex. Some time after we started having sex but after first date she barely kisses my mouth. I can kiss her whole body and make sex but she do not want to kiss my mouth. I do not understand this situation. Have you ever met girl like that or understand her behaviour?
There is never a shortage of weird people in this world. If she won't kiss so be it. Don't go crazy trying to figure people out

Plate her. Smash her. Spin more plates.
 

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Simple. You scratch her itch she needs scratched (seks) but she's not into you or is no longer into you for you. You're not all that and a box of chocolates for her, merely a temporary prop. Point is she stopped.
 

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You might be a ****ty kisser, or have terrible breath. She tried it at first and wasn't happy
 

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I already know what i going on. She parted his boyfirend year ago and they want to start things over again.
 

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So she's giving you pvssy while she checks him out, and your just exempt from kisses?
Lately she refused sex and when I tried to kino her she took my hand off and said touching was making her angry. So I think it is over.
 

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Lately she refused sex and when I tried to kino her she took my hand off and said touching was making her angry. So I think it is over.
So now you know you leave her completely alone. Find someone else to talk to and spend time with. If she gets an itch for you she will reach out. If she knows where you live and it's not super far I wouldn't respond to a text or call for at least a week. Let her knock at your door. Get busy on personal improvement and anything that needs to be done. If she doesn't come thru but calls or text in a week, keep the convo short, your busy. Frame the very short conversation around her hooking up with you, that's the only option.
 

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Your boyfriend wasn't properly into you.

I had a girl that told me "my last guy wouldn't do X, Y, and Z". I knew immediately what that was.

I'm telling you that a woman I'm properly into, I will lick her every inch. Girls that I'm not so into do not get head from me.

It is the same in reverse for a man.
At the time I broached the subject (as opposed to closer to when we broke up) he was into me. When I asked, I did ask if it was something about me, perhaps my breath, etc. He replied it was nothing about me, he said he's never been someone who likes to kiss, with any relationship he's ever had. Some people dont like to kiss because they dont like to kiss. Tongues, spit, saliva, germs - it doesn't do it for them. I did get "head" from him, that was a favorite of his. lol, ironic

Not everyone is *you* @deesade. The man-world did not spawn from your gene pool, with your same viewpoints, opinions and understandings. Try opening up your blinders and taking a larger look at how other people might assimilate the world.

Perhaps you could have rephrased your statement into the form of a question.... "could it be that he wasnt properly into you? I had a girl......"

just a suggestion....
 
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LMAO. You have no idea.

Okay then, Mrs :D

And if this guy is inexperienced, and stupid enough to think the same, he will be selling himself short.

I tought that woman that the guy was an idiot (or just fvcked up). Shame that some guy didn't teach you the same.

We all project our experiences, woman :D
I'm not gonna go back and forth with you........again.... I'm just going to declare you the WINNER of this conversation!
Because with you it always comes down to being right and winning.
Have fun with that
 
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