If the Private Lounge requirement is the member has to be in DJ forum for at least a year. Then it would eliminate all the noobish problems.Originally posted by Centaurion
I'm in as long as the place doesn't get overrun by friggin n00bs.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
If the Private Lounge requirement is the member has to be in DJ forum for at least a year. Then it would eliminate all the noobish problems.Originally posted by Centaurion
I'm in as long as the place doesn't get overrun by friggin n00bs.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Your PM box is full.Originally posted by Centaurion
If you are serious about this, I'm more than willing to help. Send me a pm if you need a hand with anything.
You are welcome.Originally posted by Cheatz
I'm interested, count me in.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
gotta agree with that ,Originally posted by borris
The problem wih going private is that there are probably people like myself who like reading the quality posts on the board but don't actually post/register. Should these people be excluded because of those who post nonsense?
If such a forum was created I personally would prefer it to be 'read only' (until an invite or whatever allows posting rights) so that people like myself can still view the posts there, and this will obviously stop the crap being posted (I don't mean by me!).
There are still good posts on this board, but obviously the overall quality has gone down somewhat as a result of certain things being published in the mass media. It would be dissapointing however to close the door on access to good material to those who are deemed not worthy, which I'm sure will be determined by something like post count.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That of course leaves one problem...Originally posted by Swoop
If the Private Lounge requirement is the member has to be in DJ forum for at least a year. Then it would eliminate all the noobish problems.
Great, youre welcome. Your sarging journal more than makes up for your registration date.Originally posted by muttley
Hello abbas,
nice idea you have and i am interested to see how it turns out. I have a sarging journal located here-->
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=83593
I guess i could use some feedback on my approaches and stuff because to be honest right now i dont get much help
I like to put stuff into practice , but i also require my stuff to be broken down and criticised which will lead to my improvment.
PM me back the details of this lounge, im committed bro.
peace abbas
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.