"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Setting up a private lounge, who would be interested?

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Originally posted by Centaurion
I'm in as long as the place doesn't get overrun by friggin n00bs.
If the Private Lounge requirement is the member has to be in DJ forum for at least a year. Then it would eliminate all the noobish problems.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Centaurion
If you are serious about this, I'm more than willing to help. Send me a pm if you need a hand with anything.
Your PM box is full.
 

Centaurion

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not anymore

:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hello abbas,

nice idea you have and i am interested to see how it turns out. I have a sarging journal located here-->
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=83593

I guess i could use some feedback on my approaches and stuff because to be honest right now i dont get much help :(

I like to put stuff into practice , but i also require my stuff to be broken down and criticised which will lead to my improvment.

PM me back the details of this lounge, im committed bro.

peace abbas
 

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The problem wih going private is that there are probably people like myself who like reading the quality posts on the board but don't actually post/register. Should these people be excluded because of those who post nonsense?

If such a forum was created I personally would prefer it to be 'read only' (until an invite or whatever allows posting rights) so that people like myself can still view the posts there, and this will obviously stop the crap being posted (I don't mean by me!).

There are still good posts on this board, but obviously the overall quality has gone down somewhat as a result of certain things being published in the mass media. It would be dissapointing however to close the door on access to good material to those who are deemed not worthy, which I'm sure will be determined by something like post count.
 

[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]

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sounds good
 
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Yeah, I agree. There is alot of **** on these boards and all the conflicting info. Only the people who know what theyre talking about should post, but the rest (like me) should be able to at least view it.

Clean the place up guys.
 

FRëSHURE

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I'm in.
Let me know the details.

Although, Everytime I join one of these they just seem to die. Lets make it work.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by borris
The problem wih going private is that there are probably people like myself who like reading the quality posts on the board but don't actually post/register. Should these people be excluded because of those who post nonsense?

If such a forum was created I personally would prefer it to be 'read only' (until an invite or whatever allows posting rights) so that people like myself can still view the posts there, and this will obviously stop the crap being posted (I don't mean by me!).

There are still good posts on this board, but obviously the overall quality has gone down somewhat as a result of certain things being published in the mass media. It would be dissapointing however to close the door on access to good material to those who are deemed not worthy, which I'm sure will be determined by something like post count.
gotta agree with that ,

please let me know if it goes ahead
 

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If someone calls someone a noob, I'm pretty sure that any advice coming out of their mouth would be instantly thrown out the window.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Socialreject

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Originally posted by Swoop
If the Private Lounge requirement is the member has to be in DJ forum for at least a year. Then it would eliminate all the noobish problems.
That of course leaves one problem...

Ie the fact that a lot of people don't need online fora to tell them how to pick up girls/be a better person etc but already moved this way in the real world and only recently decided to joina web-ring about it to see what's going around ;-)

Not that i care all that much about who gets in and who doesn't really. I just notice a lot of the same crap emerging again and again on this board. I could make a prewritten responce and post it to half the topics on this forum at any given day :rolleyes:

Makes it kind of hard to find the stuff you want to read about...
 

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Count me in, I posted about this site not even mentioning anything past the date... what is this? We can't accept that the sweet girl you like so much loves to shag? LOL i've witnessed about 4 AFCS act like sweet girls don't love sex... that is such an AFC taboo mentality i can't stand it... thats why I like pimpology better, guys this site is lame lets make our own
 

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Originally posted by muttley
Hello abbas,

nice idea you have and i am interested to see how it turns out. I have a sarging journal located here-->
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=83593

I guess i could use some feedback on my approaches and stuff because to be honest right now i dont get much help :(

I like to put stuff into practice , but i also require my stuff to be broken down and criticised which will lead to my improvment.

PM me back the details of this lounge, im committed bro.

peace abbas
Great, youre welcome. Your sarging journal more than makes up for your registration date.

You'll get a PM when it's set up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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