"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Setting up a private lounge, who would be interested?
- Thread starter abbas
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Cheatz
Senior Don Juan
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
nice idea you have and i am interested to see how it turns out. I have a sarging journal located here-->
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=83593
I guess i could use some feedback on my approaches and stuff because to be honest right now i dont get much help
I like to put stuff into practice , but i also require my stuff to be broken down and criticised which will lead to my improvment.
PM me back the details of this lounge, im committed bro.
peace abbas
If such a forum was created I personally would prefer it to be 'read only' (until an invite or whatever allows posting rights) so that people like myself can still view the posts there, and this will obviously stop the crap being posted (I don't mean by me!).
There are still good posts on this board, but obviously the overall quality has gone down somewhat as a result of certain things being published in the mass media. It would be dissapointing however to close the door on access to good material to those who are deemed not worthy, which I'm sure will be determined by something like post count.
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brucevangeorge
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Clean the place up guys.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Count me in as well.
Karma
Johnnie5
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gotta agree with that ,
please let me know if it goes ahead
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Socialreject
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That of course leaves one problem...
Ie the fact that a lot of people don't need online fora to tell them how to pick up girls/be a better person etc but already moved this way in the real world and only recently decided to joina web-ring about it to see what's going around ;-)
Not that i care all that much about who gets in and who doesn't really. I just notice a lot of the same crap emerging again and again on this board. I could make a prewritten responce and post it to half the topics on this forum at any given day
Makes it kind of hard to find the stuff you want to read about...
Dimebag_Darrell
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JaguarMike
Don Juan
GS-83
Don Juan
count me in.
Great, youre welcome. Your sarging journal more than makes up for your registration date.Originally posted by muttley
Hello abbas,
nice idea you have and i am interested to see how it turns out. I have a sarging journal located here-->
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=83593
I guess i could use some feedback on my approaches and stuff because to be honest right now i dont get much help
I like to put stuff into practice , but i also require my stuff to be broken down and criticised which will lead to my improvment.
PM me back the details of this lounge, im committed bro.
peace abbas
You'll get a PM when it's set up.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.