"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Setting up a private lounge, who would be interested?

S

Swoop

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 20, 2005
Messages
272
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by Centaurion
I'm in as long as the place doesn't get overrun by friggin n00bs.
Click to expand...
If the Private Lounge requirement is the member has to be in DJ forum for at least a year. Then it would eliminate all the noobish problems.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

A

abbas

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 19, 2003
Messages
40
Reaction score
0
Location
Yurup
Originally posted by Centaurion
If you are serious about this, I'm more than willing to help. Send me a pm if you need a hand with anything.
Click to expand...
Your PM box is full.
 
C

Centaurion

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2001
Messages
2,314
Reaction score
17
Location
Europe
not anymore

:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

M

muttley

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2005
Messages
236
Reaction score
2
Hello abbas,

nice idea you have and i am interested to see how it turns out. I have a sarging journal located here-->
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=83593

I guess i could use some feedback on my approaches and stuff because to be honest right now i dont get much help :(

I like to put stuff into practice , but i also require my stuff to be broken down and criticised which will lead to my improvment.

PM me back the details of this lounge, im committed bro.

peace abbas
 
B

borris

New Member
Joined
Nov 11, 2005
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
Location
London
The problem wih going private is that there are probably people like myself who like reading the quality posts on the board but don't actually post/register. Should these people be excluded because of those who post nonsense?

If such a forum was created I personally would prefer it to be 'read only' (until an invite or whatever allows posting rights) so that people like myself can still view the posts there, and this will obviously stop the crap being posted (I don't mean by me!).

There are still good posts on this board, but obviously the overall quality has gone down somewhat as a result of certain things being published in the mass media. It would be dissapointing however to close the door on access to good material to those who are deemed not worthy, which I'm sure will be determined by something like post count.
 
D

[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2005
Messages
93
Reaction score
0
Age
38
sounds good
 
B

brucevangeorge

Banned
Joined
Aug 8, 2005
Messages
1,063
Reaction score
5
Age
39
Location
The Cold North.
Yeah, I agree. There is alot of **** on these boards and all the conflicting info. Only the people who know what theyre talking about should post, but the rest (like me) should be able to at least view it.

Clean the place up guys.
 
F

FRëSHURE

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2005
Messages
199
Reaction score
0
I'm in.
Let me know the details.

Although, Everytime I join one of these they just seem to die. Lets make it work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

J

Johnnie5

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 25, 2005
Messages
110
Reaction score
0
Age
51
Location
Sydney/Australia
Originally posted by borris
The problem wih going private is that there are probably people like myself who like reading the quality posts on the board but don't actually post/register. Should these people be excluded because of those who post nonsense?

If such a forum was created I personally would prefer it to be 'read only' (until an invite or whatever allows posting rights) so that people like myself can still view the posts there, and this will obviously stop the crap being posted (I don't mean by me!).

There are still good posts on this board, but obviously the overall quality has gone down somewhat as a result of certain things being published in the mass media. It would be dissapointing however to close the door on access to good material to those who are deemed not worthy, which I'm sure will be determined by something like post count.
Click to expand...
gotta agree with that ,

please let me know if it goes ahead
 
S

splinterkb

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2004
Messages
750
Reaction score
4
Age
40
Location
Minnesota
If someone calls someone a noob, I'm pretty sure that any advice coming out of their mouth would be instantly thrown out the window.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

S

Socialreject

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 9, 2005
Messages
409
Reaction score
4
Originally posted by Swoop
If the Private Lounge requirement is the member has to be in DJ forum for at least a year. Then it would eliminate all the noobish problems.
Click to expand...
That of course leaves one problem...

Ie the fact that a lot of people don't need online fora to tell them how to pick up girls/be a better person etc but already moved this way in the real world and only recently decided to joina web-ring about it to see what's going around ;-)

Not that i care all that much about who gets in and who doesn't really. I just notice a lot of the same crap emerging again and again on this board. I could make a prewritten responce and post it to half the topics on this forum at any given day :rolleyes:

Makes it kind of hard to find the stuff you want to read about...
 
J

JaguarMike

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2005
Messages
149
Reaction score
1
Age
40
Location
The People's Republic of Maryland
Count me in, I posted about this site not even mentioning anything past the date... what is this? We can't accept that the sweet girl you like so much loves to shag? LOL i've witnessed about 4 AFCS act like sweet girls don't love sex... that is such an AFC taboo mentality i can't stand it... thats why I like pimpology better, guys this site is lame lets make our own
 
A

abbas

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 19, 2003
Messages
40
Reaction score
0
Location
Yurup
Originally posted by muttley
Hello abbas,

nice idea you have and i am interested to see how it turns out. I have a sarging journal located here-->
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=83593

I guess i could use some feedback on my approaches and stuff because to be honest right now i dont get much help :(

I like to put stuff into practice , but i also require my stuff to be broken down and criticised which will lead to my improvment.

PM me back the details of this lounge, im committed bro.

peace abbas
Click to expand...
Great, youre welcome. Your sarging journal more than makes up for your registration date.

You'll get a PM when it's set up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top