"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Setting up a private lounge, who would be interested?

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Swoop said:
If the Private Lounge requirement is the member has to be in DJ forum for at least a year. Then it would eliminate all the noobish problems.
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The downside to that is that there are people who have been here for years and still have no clue what's going on, yet there are also people that have less than a year's membership who are more helpful and experienced than the rest. To me it would make more sense to judge by what the person says in their posts, not how long they've been a member. Someone signs up there, peruse their posts as deeply as you can here, and if they're not dunces and actually have something to contribute, let them in.

Just an idea.....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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