Setting dates

[Pm856]

Hey bros.

I know that ams has a lot of videos of how to set dates the right way but i wonder how you guys do. Let's say you dont hear from her a whole week. How do you proceed etc.

 

[Pm856]

It could be when we both leave town or sometimes when its a week filled with work etc. Lets say i date this chic for about two-three months

 

[MoMoses]

Hey bros.

I know that ams has a lot of videos of how to set dates the right way but i wonder how you guys do. Let's say you dont hear from her a whole week. How do you proceed etc.

When you have a date set in a week: DON'T GHOST THE GIRL FOR AN ENTIRE WEEK

You'll get a much bigger chance of her flaking on you. I made this mistake a few times in the past. It's really important you don't do that because the girl will start wondering and things will start feeling not right to her.. this will lead to a flake.

What I always do when a date is like a week away is that I text her every 3-4 days or so. Something light and funny. So she knows it's still on and that I haven't forgotten about her or worse, that I'm just out texting other girls now. This last part may be true, and a woman can wonder about it, but if she doesn't hear a thing from you anymore she'll come to this conclusion and start the auto-rejection process where you are being turned down so she can protect herself from getting hurt.

No really, don't ghost her, but don't stalk her either. Just a simple text every few days so you don't break report is all it takes.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Let's say you dont hear from her a whole week. How do you proceed etc.

You move on to the next girl, if she has low interest why bother?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Hey bros.

I know that ams has a lot of videos of how to set dates the right way but i wonder how you guys do. Let's say you dont hear from her a whole week. How do you proceed etc.

We have no context with what you are talking about so it is hard to really say anything. Is this a first date? Have you already set the date at this point? Have you asked her out on the date and she hasn't responded?

Give us more context to get a better answer.

 

[Pm856]

We have no context with what you are talking about so it is hard to really say anything. Is this a first date? Have you already set the date at this point? Have you asked her out on the date and she hasn't responded?

Give us more context to get a better answer.

For instance: do you skip weeks before asking her out?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

For instance: do you skip weeks before asking her out?

No. At least I don't. Other people's answers may very. I am very quick to ask women out when I start interacting with them. Usually by the 4th or 5th message I will ask them if they want to get together and connect in person sometime.

If you are messaging them for long periods of time before aking them out you are not doing yourself any favors. You are simply wasting time. Move faster.

 

[SW15]

I know that ams has a lot of videos of how to set dates the right way but i wonder how you guys do. Let's say you dont hear from her a whole week. How do you proceed etc.

This is likely a nexting.

If a relationship is going to blossom into something, you need to be seeing her in person once every 4-7 days in the first 2 months. If that happens, that's a relationship.

 

[bat soup]

Hey bros.

I know that ams has a lot of videos of how to set dates the right way but i wonder how you guys do. Let's say you dont hear from her a whole week. How do you proceed etc.

I'd consider it low interest. Someone that is excited to see you won't want to wait a week. Low interest = low value = generally a waste of time dealing with them at all.

 

[Lookatu]

Unless she legitimately has something already pre-planned like a vacation or if her relatives are coming in from out of town to visit, or something like that, it signals low interest otherwise.

There is absolutely no reason why a high interest girl wouldn't wanna see you asap. Girls will push you out if they already have dates lined up with the same or higher smv guys most likely.

Don't be a benchwarmer or play second string with these b1tches.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I ask them out directly on the dating app we are corresponding with. I’ll ask them for 2-4 days out. After meeting them in person for the first date I wait 5-9 days before calling to ask them out for the next date. The exception is if they initiate contact sooner. If at any time they text or call me, I’ll ask them out right there for the next date. Chicks with high interest will hit you up almost immediately the next day after a good date.

 

[SW15]

Chicks with high interest will hit you up almost immediately the next day after a good date.

One of the best pieces of advice out there. Wait a least 48 hours after an early stage to ask again and see which chicks hit you up within the first 24.

 

[EyeBRollin]

One of the best pieces of advice out there. Wait a least 48 hours after an early stage to ask again and see which chicks hit you up within the first 24.

I’ve had some hit me up on day 4, day 5, and even day 8. The wait gets them to crack. If they have interest level, they feel the space. It eats them.