"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Serial Seducer on Today show
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
taiyuu_otoko
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This one also
http://jezebel.com/gossip/clips/casanova-paul-janka-maybe-admits-hes-damaged-goods-332087.php
damaged goods?
http://jezebel.com/gossip/clips/casanova-paul-janka-maybe-admits-hes-damaged-goods-332087.php
damaged goods?
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
oops, one more
Here's he's ebook (17 pages) if you're interested.
http://www.bristollair.com/e/jankapdf
Taiyuu
Here's he's ebook (17 pages) if you're interested.
http://www.bristollair.com/e/jankapdf
Taiyuu
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they preyed on unsuspecting women to get them into the bedroom.
So men force women to open their legs?? HUH???? Why don't thjey blame the hor for her OWN personal actions!!!!!
They want to do as men but not to be accountable for their actions!!
No such thing as a "sex addiction" - more matrix shyt!!
They told the pimp to get some help from a doctor!! Hahaha - no - tell the hors to be women!!!!
So men force women to open their legs?? HUH???? Why don't thjey blame the hor for her OWN personal actions!!!!!
They want to do as men but not to be accountable for their actions!!
No such thing as a "sex addiction" - more matrix shyt!!
They told the pimp to get some help from a doctor!! Hahaha - no - tell the hors to be women!!!!
Rollo Tomassi
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Wow. I'm going to agree with something LMS posted. Watch for the Apocalypse soon,..Last Man Standing said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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What the hell is sex addiction suppose to mean anyways?
You don't think that people just have sex to fill a void and prove their worth as a human being?
You don't think that people just have sex to fill a void and prove their worth as a human being?
I read the article, I haven't had the opportunity to watch the video yet.
The article at least, is basically everything that is discussed here, his intereview could have been any of the straightforward no-nonsense posts we get here. I felt like I was just reading "women and men" posts here in MM. Is the mindset here THAT UNCOMMON?
This mindset has become my default I guess. They titled it "serial suducer" kind of like "serial killer" but what was actually negative in his text interview??
Will watch the video later. Just glanced at it and there he is with the sex addict expert. Poor guy has serious issues! I assume the female interviewer will shame him just a little.
The article at least, is basically everything that is discussed here, his intereview could have been any of the straightforward no-nonsense posts we get here. I felt like I was just reading "women and men" posts here in MM. Is the mindset here THAT UNCOMMON?
This mindset has become my default I guess. They titled it "serial suducer" kind of like "serial killer" but what was actually negative in his text interview??
Will watch the video later. Just glanced at it and there he is with the sex addict expert. Poor guy has serious issues! I assume the female interviewer will shame him just a little.
I'm so sick of this!
Why can't people just do whatever the fvck they want! Sh1t, if i fvck twenty women, every damn last one of them WANTED IT. And i've never, not once, had a girl ask if i was currently sleeping with anyone else.
And the second article where some lady is b1tching about people saying "vibe?" There isn't some mystical energy, but there sure as hell is two personalities syncing up where they're operating pretty much in concert. How many conversations have you had where you just KNOW things aren't in sync and want to get away asap because it's WEIRD? I see it here practically everyday with 2 people arguing where they're barely talking about the same thing if at all and neither of them realize it.
Emotional void filled with sex? Please. I wake up with a hard on because I am full of testosterone and took zinc/magnesium before bed. My body wants to fvck cause it likes to fvck. My brain isn't thinking "oh i need an emotional connection this morning!" It wakes up thinking "i wish there was some babe i could roll on top of right here because it feels awesome."
i swear too much
Why can't people just do whatever the fvck they want! Sh1t, if i fvck twenty women, every damn last one of them WANTED IT. And i've never, not once, had a girl ask if i was currently sleeping with anyone else.
And the second article where some lady is b1tching about people saying "vibe?" There isn't some mystical energy, but there sure as hell is two personalities syncing up where they're operating pretty much in concert. How many conversations have you had where you just KNOW things aren't in sync and want to get away asap because it's WEIRD? I see it here practically everyday with 2 people arguing where they're barely talking about the same thing if at all and neither of them realize it.
Emotional void filled with sex? Please. I wake up with a hard on because I am full of testosterone and took zinc/magnesium before bed. My body wants to fvck cause it likes to fvck. My brain isn't thinking "oh i need an emotional connection this morning!" It wakes up thinking "i wish there was some babe i could roll on top of right here because it feels awesome."
i swear too much
The interviews were dumb, but that guy's system is as creepy as fvck.
He says you should go into a pub before a date, and offer the bartender huge tips to refer to the seltzer water you will be ordering as an alcoholic drink, and bill you as such, in case the girl takes a peek at the check. Of course, you'll also be paying him extra on the sly to mix her drinks extra strong.
He says you should go into a pub before a date, and offer the bartender huge tips to refer to the seltzer water you will be ordering as an alcoholic drink, and bill you as such, in case the girl takes a peek at the check. Of course, you'll also be paying him extra on the sly to mix her drinks extra strong.
Francisco d'Anconia
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I agree. There was a thread about this not too long ago.Phyzzle said:
His stuff is interesting to read; nothing earth-shattering, but interesting nonetheless.
Once you get into it you can see he is kind of a shady dude. His system works, im sure, but at an ethical cost. I read a blog article from a woman he seduced, or tried to anyway. She claimed that she showed up to his place one night and he answers the door with his bare c0ck in his hand, jerking off. They had just met.
And his spreadsheet thing is a little creepy. It just goes to show you how there is a dark side and a light side to this community. I personally dont think any true DJ would do some of those things he does--that's what separates the PUA and DJ kingdoms. Pick-up Artistry is, to me, the dark side of the force. The lure of power at the cost of your soul.
I agree with the original article and his general thoughts.
But have SERIOUS issues on the other stuff referred outside the main article such as with the shady stuff he does such as the bartender thing and the cuck-jerking-off thing. That's clear indication of low self-value.
But have SERIOUS issues on the other stuff referred outside the main article such as with the shady stuff he does such as the bartender thing and the cuck-jerking-off thing. That's clear indication of low self-value.
Well if someone believes in the premise that what he's doing is wrong, then it's just as wrong for the females he's seducing. They know what the deal is. Classic example of women wanting and willingly being "hors" and then transfering all the blame and responsibility on the male.
I don't see what he's doing as being "creepy". I would put zero credibility in that one girl's statement, "He answered the door with his c0ck in his hand..".So what if he chooses not to drink but believes in creating the impression with his date that he is drinking? Whether he admitted he wasn't drinking or does not, either way he's not getting drunk. He's just putting on appearances. How is that any different than a woman wearing make-up to look better, high heels to look taller etc? As far as keeping a spreadsheet, what's so wrong with keeping notes to help in remembering various details. When you have a lot of information to keep straight, people write it down for all sorts of other things. Why is this different? If your going to spend many plates and your memory isn't the best, it comes with the territory.
I don't see what he's doing as being "creepy". I would put zero credibility in that one girl's statement, "He answered the door with his c0ck in his hand..".So what if he chooses not to drink but believes in creating the impression with his date that he is drinking? Whether he admitted he wasn't drinking or does not, either way he's not getting drunk. He's just putting on appearances. How is that any different than a woman wearing make-up to look better, high heels to look taller etc? As far as keeping a spreadsheet, what's so wrong with keeping notes to help in remembering various details. When you have a lot of information to keep straight, people write it down for all sorts of other things. Why is this different? If your going to spend many plates and your memory isn't the best, it comes with the territory.
wjh
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Paul Janka is whoring himself out.
He's also given up on the alcohol item that was in his ebook. His reasoning was related to cost, though.
He's also given up on the alcohol item that was in his ebook. His reasoning was related to cost, though.
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I like what Janka says about the mass text-messaging in the afternoon while you're real busy at work. He's adamant in saying nothing until after you've fvcked her, thus leaving her to her imagination, whether romantic or not, of you. We could never dream up the things that these soap-opera watching chicks dream up, so why not let em do it? And keep our mouths shut about ourselves despite our accomplishments. I like the lounge thing too. Eating does lead to the woman ordering everything on the menu and getting bloated. Amen.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What is wrong with that? I will tell you from a DJ perspective what is wrong...ketostix said:
He is SPENDING too much time on this crap. Time better spent on improving his life (which by the way of things, is not as great for a 30-year-old man, as he seems to be broke). There are no reasons to PRETEND in order to get women. He needs to work on getting himself to the point where he does NOT have to pretend he is ordering alcohol so he can save some $$$ (as he admits he is practically broke).
The spreadsheet part is a little pathetic. I don't even know how many women I have ****ed in my life. I don't even remember names. Personally, I don't care as I don't live on my past glory...I rather improve in my present and future. And although, I have not reach the 100 mark...I am certain, I have had sex over 1,000 time.
The girl calling him creepy is a fool. At least he is honest. I do agree completely with the original philosophy in the original article.
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I feel like beating those ppl up thats ****ing retarded how they condem this
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.