"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Serial Seducer on Today show
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
taiyuu_otoko
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This one also
http://jezebel.com/gossip/clips/casanova-paul-janka-maybe-admits-hes-damaged-goods-332087.php
damaged goods?
http://jezebel.com/gossip/clips/casanova-paul-janka-maybe-admits-hes-damaged-goods-332087.php
damaged goods?
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
oops, one more
Here's he's ebook (17 pages) if you're interested.
http://www.bristollair.com/e/jankapdf
Taiyuu
Here's he's ebook (17 pages) if you're interested.
http://www.bristollair.com/e/jankapdf
Taiyuu
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they preyed on unsuspecting women to get them into the bedroom.
So men force women to open their legs?? HUH???? Why don't thjey blame the hor for her OWN personal actions!!!!!
They want to do as men but not to be accountable for their actions!!
No such thing as a "sex addiction" - more matrix shyt!!
They told the pimp to get some help from a doctor!! Hahaha - no - tell the hors to be women!!!!
So men force women to open their legs?? HUH???? Why don't thjey blame the hor for her OWN personal actions!!!!!
They want to do as men but not to be accountable for their actions!!
No such thing as a "sex addiction" - more matrix shyt!!
They told the pimp to get some help from a doctor!! Hahaha - no - tell the hors to be women!!!!
Rollo Tomassi
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Wow. I'm going to agree with something LMS posted. Watch for the Apocalypse soon,..Last Man Standing said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ThunderMaverick
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What the hell is sex addiction suppose to mean anyways?
You don't think that people just have sex to fill a void and prove their worth as a human being?
You don't think that people just have sex to fill a void and prove their worth as a human being?
I read the article, I haven't had the opportunity to watch the video yet.
The article at least, is basically everything that is discussed here, his intereview could have been any of the straightforward no-nonsense posts we get here. I felt like I was just reading "women and men" posts here in MM. Is the mindset here THAT UNCOMMON?
This mindset has become my default I guess. They titled it "serial suducer" kind of like "serial killer" but what was actually negative in his text interview??
Will watch the video later. Just glanced at it and there he is with the sex addict expert. Poor guy has serious issues! I assume the female interviewer will shame him just a little.
The article at least, is basically everything that is discussed here, his intereview could have been any of the straightforward no-nonsense posts we get here. I felt like I was just reading "women and men" posts here in MM. Is the mindset here THAT UNCOMMON?
This mindset has become my default I guess. They titled it "serial suducer" kind of like "serial killer" but what was actually negative in his text interview??
Will watch the video later. Just glanced at it and there he is with the sex addict expert. Poor guy has serious issues! I assume the female interviewer will shame him just a little.
I'm so sick of this!
Why can't people just do whatever the fvck they want! Sh1t, if i fvck twenty women, every damn last one of them WANTED IT. And i've never, not once, had a girl ask if i was currently sleeping with anyone else.
And the second article where some lady is b1tching about people saying "vibe?" There isn't some mystical energy, but there sure as hell is two personalities syncing up where they're operating pretty much in concert. How many conversations have you had where you just KNOW things aren't in sync and want to get away asap because it's WEIRD? I see it here practically everyday with 2 people arguing where they're barely talking about the same thing if at all and neither of them realize it.
Emotional void filled with sex? Please. I wake up with a hard on because I am full of testosterone and took zinc/magnesium before bed. My body wants to fvck cause it likes to fvck. My brain isn't thinking "oh i need an emotional connection this morning!" It wakes up thinking "i wish there was some babe i could roll on top of right here because it feels awesome."
i swear too much
Why can't people just do whatever the fvck they want! Sh1t, if i fvck twenty women, every damn last one of them WANTED IT. And i've never, not once, had a girl ask if i was currently sleeping with anyone else.
And the second article where some lady is b1tching about people saying "vibe?" There isn't some mystical energy, but there sure as hell is two personalities syncing up where they're operating pretty much in concert. How many conversations have you had where you just KNOW things aren't in sync and want to get away asap because it's WEIRD? I see it here practically everyday with 2 people arguing where they're barely talking about the same thing if at all and neither of them realize it.
Emotional void filled with sex? Please. I wake up with a hard on because I am full of testosterone and took zinc/magnesium before bed. My body wants to fvck cause it likes to fvck. My brain isn't thinking "oh i need an emotional connection this morning!" It wakes up thinking "i wish there was some babe i could roll on top of right here because it feels awesome."
i swear too much
The interviews were dumb, but that guy's system is as creepy as fvck.
He says you should go into a pub before a date, and offer the bartender huge tips to refer to the seltzer water you will be ordering as an alcoholic drink, and bill you as such, in case the girl takes a peek at the check. Of course, you'll also be paying him extra on the sly to mix her drinks extra strong.
He says you should go into a pub before a date, and offer the bartender huge tips to refer to the seltzer water you will be ordering as an alcoholic drink, and bill you as such, in case the girl takes a peek at the check. Of course, you'll also be paying him extra on the sly to mix her drinks extra strong.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Colossus
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I agree. There was a thread about this not too long ago.Phyzzle said:
His stuff is interesting to read; nothing earth-shattering, but interesting nonetheless.
Once you get into it you can see he is kind of a shady dude. His system works, im sure, but at an ethical cost. I read a blog article from a woman he seduced, or tried to anyway. She claimed that she showed up to his place one night and he answers the door with his bare c0ck in his hand, jerking off. They had just met.
And his spreadsheet thing is a little creepy. It just goes to show you how there is a dark side and a light side to this community. I personally dont think any true DJ would do some of those things he does--that's what separates the PUA and DJ kingdoms. Pick-up Artistry is, to me, the dark side of the force. The lure of power at the cost of your soul.
I agree with the original article and his general thoughts.
But have SERIOUS issues on the other stuff referred outside the main article such as with the shady stuff he does such as the bartender thing and the cuck-jerking-off thing. That's clear indication of low self-value.
But have SERIOUS issues on the other stuff referred outside the main article such as with the shady stuff he does such as the bartender thing and the cuck-jerking-off thing. That's clear indication of low self-value.
Well if someone believes in the premise that what he's doing is wrong, then it's just as wrong for the females he's seducing. They know what the deal is. Classic example of women wanting and willingly being "hors" and then transfering all the blame and responsibility on the male.
I don't see what he's doing as being "creepy". I would put zero credibility in that one girl's statement, "He answered the door with his c0ck in his hand..".So what if he chooses not to drink but believes in creating the impression with his date that he is drinking? Whether he admitted he wasn't drinking or does not, either way he's not getting drunk. He's just putting on appearances. How is that any different than a woman wearing make-up to look better, high heels to look taller etc? As far as keeping a spreadsheet, what's so wrong with keeping notes to help in remembering various details. When you have a lot of information to keep straight, people write it down for all sorts of other things. Why is this different? If your going to spend many plates and your memory isn't the best, it comes with the territory.
I don't see what he's doing as being "creepy". I would put zero credibility in that one girl's statement, "He answered the door with his c0ck in his hand..".So what if he chooses not to drink but believes in creating the impression with his date that he is drinking? Whether he admitted he wasn't drinking or does not, either way he's not getting drunk. He's just putting on appearances. How is that any different than a woman wearing make-up to look better, high heels to look taller etc? As far as keeping a spreadsheet, what's so wrong with keeping notes to help in remembering various details. When you have a lot of information to keep straight, people write it down for all sorts of other things. Why is this different? If your going to spend many plates and your memory isn't the best, it comes with the territory.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Paul Janka is whoring himself out.
He's also given up on the alcohol item that was in his ebook. His reasoning was related to cost, though.
He's also given up on the alcohol item that was in his ebook. His reasoning was related to cost, though.
Poonani Maker
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I like what Janka says about the mass text-messaging in the afternoon while you're real busy at work. He's adamant in saying nothing until after you've fvcked her, thus leaving her to her imagination, whether romantic or not, of you. We could never dream up the things that these soap-opera watching chicks dream up, so why not let em do it? And keep our mouths shut about ourselves despite our accomplishments. I like the lounge thing too. Eating does lead to the woman ordering everything on the menu and getting bloated. Amen.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What is wrong with that? I will tell you from a DJ perspective what is wrong...ketostix said:
He is SPENDING too much time on this crap. Time better spent on improving his life (which by the way of things, is not as great for a 30-year-old man, as he seems to be broke). There are no reasons to PRETEND in order to get women. He needs to work on getting himself to the point where he does NOT have to pretend he is ordering alcohol so he can save some $$$ (as he admits he is practically broke).
The spreadsheet part is a little pathetic. I don't even know how many women I have ****ed in my life. I don't even remember names. Personally, I don't care as I don't live on my past glory...I rather improve in my present and future. And although, I have not reach the 100 mark...I am certain, I have had sex over 1,000 time.
The girl calling him creepy is a fool. At least he is honest. I do agree completely with the original philosophy in the original article.
GaryUranga
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I feel like beating those ppl up thats ****ing retarded how they condem this
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.