"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Serial Seducer on Today show

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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they preyed on unsuspecting women to get them into the bedroom.

So men force women to open their legs?? HUH???? Why don't thjey blame the hor for her OWN personal actions!!!!!

They want to do as men but not to be accountable for their actions!!


No such thing as a "sex addiction" - more matrix shyt!!

They told the pimp to get some help from a doctor!! Hahaha - no - tell the hors to be women!!!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
No such thing as a "sex addiction" - more matrix shyt!!
Wow. I'm going to agree with something LMS posted. Watch for the Apocalypse soon,..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What the hell is sex addiction suppose to mean anyways?

You don't think that people just have sex to fill a void and prove their worth as a human being?
 

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I read the article, I haven't had the opportunity to watch the video yet.

The article at least, is basically everything that is discussed here, his intereview could have been any of the straightforward no-nonsense posts we get here. I felt like I was just reading "women and men" posts here in MM. Is the mindset here THAT UNCOMMON?

This mindset has become my default I guess. They titled it "serial suducer" kind of like "serial killer" but what was actually negative in his text interview??

Will watch the video later. Just glanced at it and there he is with the sex addict expert. Poor guy has serious issues! I assume the female interviewer will shame him just a little.
 

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I'm so sick of this!

Why can't people just do whatever the fvck they want! Sh1t, if i fvck twenty women, every damn last one of them WANTED IT. And i've never, not once, had a girl ask if i was currently sleeping with anyone else.

And the second article where some lady is b1tching about people saying "vibe?" There isn't some mystical energy, but there sure as hell is two personalities syncing up where they're operating pretty much in concert. How many conversations have you had where you just KNOW things aren't in sync and want to get away asap because it's WEIRD? I see it here practically everyday with 2 people arguing where they're barely talking about the same thing if at all and neither of them realize it.

Emotional void filled with sex? Please. I wake up with a hard on because I am full of testosterone and took zinc/magnesium before bed. My body wants to fvck cause it likes to fvck. My brain isn't thinking "oh i need an emotional connection this morning!" It wakes up thinking "i wish there was some babe i could roll on top of right here because it feels awesome."

i swear too much
 

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The interviews were dumb, but that guy's system is as creepy as fvck.

He says you should go into a pub before a date, and offer the bartender huge tips to refer to the seltzer water you will be ordering as an alcoholic drink, and bill you as such, in case the girl takes a peek at the check. Of course, you'll also be paying him extra on the sly to mix her drinks extra strong.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Phyzzle said:
The interviews were dumb, but that guy's system is as creepy as fvck.

He says you should go into a pub before a date, and offer the bartender huge tips to refer to the seltzer water you will be ordering as an alcoholic drink, and bill you as such, in case the girl takes a peek at the check. Of course, you'll also be paying him extra on the sly to mix her drinks extra strong.
I agree. There was a thread about this not too long ago.

His stuff is interesting to read; nothing earth-shattering, but interesting nonetheless.

Once you get into it you can see he is kind of a shady dude. His system works, im sure, but at an ethical cost. I read a blog article from a woman he seduced, or tried to anyway. She claimed that she showed up to his place one night and he answers the door with his bare c0ck in his hand, jerking off. They had just met.

And his spreadsheet thing is a little creepy. It just goes to show you how there is a dark side and a light side to this community. I personally dont think any true DJ would do some of those things he does--that's what separates the PUA and DJ kingdoms. Pick-up Artistry is, to me, the dark side of the force. The lure of power at the cost of your soul.
 

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I agree with the original article and his general thoughts.

But have SERIOUS issues on the other stuff referred outside the main article such as with the shady stuff he does such as the bartender thing and the cuck-jerking-off thing. That's clear indication of low self-value.
 

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Well if someone believes in the premise that what he's doing is wrong, then it's just as wrong for the females he's seducing. They know what the deal is. Classic example of women wanting and willingly being "hors" and then transfering all the blame and responsibility on the male.

I don't see what he's doing as being "creepy". I would put zero credibility in that one girl's statement, "He answered the door with his c0ck in his hand..".So what if he chooses not to drink but believes in creating the impression with his date that he is drinking? Whether he admitted he wasn't drinking or does not, either way he's not getting drunk. He's just putting on appearances. How is that any different than a woman wearing make-up to look better, high heels to look taller etc? As far as keeping a spreadsheet, what's so wrong with keeping notes to help in remembering various details. When you have a lot of information to keep straight, people write it down for all sorts of other things. Why is this different? If your going to spend many plates and your memory isn't the best, it comes with the territory.
 

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Paul Janka is whoring himself out.

He's also given up on the alcohol item that was in his ebook. His reasoning was related to cost, though.
 

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I like what Janka says about the mass text-messaging in the afternoon while you're real busy at work. He's adamant in saying nothing until after you've fvcked her, thus leaving her to her imagination, whether romantic or not, of you. We could never dream up the things that these soap-opera watching chicks dream up, so why not let em do it? And keep our mouths shut about ourselves despite our accomplishments. I like the lounge thing too. Eating does lead to the woman ordering everything on the menu and getting bloated. Amen.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ketostix said:
Well if someone believes in the premise that what he's doing is wrong, then it's just as wrong for the females he's seducing. They know what the deal is. Classic example of women wanting and willingly being "hors" and then transfering all the blame and responsibility on the male.

I don't see what he's doing as being "creepy". I would put zero credibility in that one girl's statement, "He answered the door with his c0ck in his hand..".So what if he chooses not to drink but believes in creating the impression with his date that he is drinking? Whether he admitted he wasn't drinking or does not, either way he's not getting drunk. He's just putting on appearances. How is that any different than a woman wearing make-up to look better, high heels to look taller etc? As far as keeping a spreadsheet, what's so wrong with keeping notes to help in remembering various details. When you have a lot of information to keep straight, people write it down for all sorts of other things. Why is this different? If your going to spend many plates and your memory isn't the best, it comes with the territory.
What is wrong with that? I will tell you from a DJ perspective what is wrong...

He is SPENDING too much time on this crap. Time better spent on improving his life (which by the way of things, is not as great for a 30-year-old man, as he seems to be broke). There are no reasons to PRETEND in order to get women. He needs to work on getting himself to the point where he does NOT have to pretend he is ordering alcohol so he can save some $$$ (as he admits he is practically broke).

The spreadsheet part is a little pathetic. I don't even know how many women I have ****ed in my life. I don't even remember names. Personally, I don't care as I don't live on my past glory...I rather improve in my present and future. And although, I have not reach the 100 mark...I am certain, I have had sex over 1,000 time.

The girl calling him creepy is a fool. At least he is honest. I do agree completely with the original philosophy in the original article.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
I like what Janka says about the mass text-messaging in the afternoon while you're real busy at work. He's adamant in saying nothing until after you've fvcked her, thus leaving her to her imagination, whether romantic or not, of you. We could never dream up the things that these soap-opera watching chicks dream up, so why not let em do it? And keep our mouths shut about ourselves despite our accomplishments. I like the lounge thing too. Eating does lead to the woman ordering everything on the menu and getting bloated. Amen.
Totally agree on the dinner part.
 

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wolf116 said:
Why do you people keep posting threads in the mature man section when they have nothing to do with mature men!
The guy is THIRTY years old. That makes him MATURE. He is not a 20 year old kid, pretending to be a mature man.
 

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wolf116 said:
Why do you people keep posting threads in the mature man section when they have nothing to do with mature men!
And why are you posting in the MM section when you are NOT a mature man?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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