"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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self hypnosis request?

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someone on this forum posted a self hypnosis mp3 project for overcoming approach anxiety a while ago. I've listened to it several times and it has done a good job of helping my anxiety out. I don't feel as nervous when i try to talk to women now that i first met. though i do have a problem for escalation. i don't know why, but when i reach the stage when i'm holding hands with a girl, i feel very awkward in my own skin and just get scared to escalate. sometimes they escalate it themselves which is pretty discouraging. so to whoever did the approach anxiety self hypnosis mp3, may i request one for escalation as well? greatly appreciated if it can be done.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are you sure that the person actually made it themselves? I'm thinking it might just be Steve P or Hypnotica.

In my opinion you can't just sit in your room and listen to hypnosis tapes and experct to get rid of approach anxiety. You have to get out there and approach! You might disagree, but I'm sure a lot of people will agree with me.

By the way I am not discounting hypnosis, I like it. But I think it should just be used as a supplement and can definately never replace action.
 
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i forget where the first one can be found, someone posted a thread about it a long time ago so you might have to look yourself.

i know that there is no substitute for experience, but these self hypnosis audios do help out a lot though, kind of like protein shakes to body builders.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i don't think the guy who made the last one saw this thread. well is there any good advice for escalation? maybe even some old threads about it?
 
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